"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Went on a date to the movies and mall yesterday.

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I went on a date to the movies and mall yesterday to one of the girls I was talking about here. She discussed about being in a relationship with me and even brought up marriage…which sort of scared me a little lol…she’s cute but going way too fast. Anyways we went to the mall and saw The Odyssey and then ate at a restaurant inside. Good stuff, here are some stuff in that date which are receipt because I can’t really show the girl’s pictures anymore according to the rules of this forum.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Did you meet her parents? These days you have to know her family, siblings, social media, get as much information about this girl as you can. You have to know who knows her allot more before taking any serious steps like marriage since these background issues can help make or break it afterwards.
 

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Did you meet her parents? These days you have to know her family, siblings, social media, get as much information about this girl as you can. You have to know who knows her allot more before taking any serious steps like marriage since these background issues can help make or break it afterwards.
Wtf?

It's a FIRST date. All that should matter to him is fecking her brains out .

He has " American money" in Asia. Ofcourse women gonna try to " wife him up".

He is the equivalent of an hb9.
 

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Wtf?

It's a FIRST date. All that should matter to him is fecking her brains out .

He has " American money" in Asia. Ofcourse women gonna try to " wife him up".

He is the equivalent of an hb9.
He has similar values that I do, which is no sex before marriage.

Were you married before?

My past experience with marriage is that you don't just marry the woman, you marry her siblings, her parents and her friends. If you can't get along with her family, then it's going to be at best a rough marriage, at worst an explosive eventual divorce.

Also, wouldn't it make more sense to step back and investigate a girl, objectively, who has indicated such an interest rather than put your own heart and emotions to bias yourself in her favour?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wtf?

It's a FIRST date. All that should matter to him is fecking her brains out .

He has " American money" in Asia. Ofcourse women gonna try to " wife him up".

He is the equivalent of an hb9.
OP won't bang anyone before marriage
 

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OP won't bang anyone before marriage
Is that even realistic in this day and age( for a man)?

And why wouldn't he bang like a rabbit being an American in the Philippines?

Might as well find a woman in the states with that mindset..
 

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Is that even realistic in this day and age( for a man)?

And why wouldn't he bang like a rabbit being an American in the Philippines?

Might as well find a woman in the states with that mindset..
That is because values are real. You really thought that is a cope, lol

In fact, if you go against your values to please a girl, then she's controlling the frame and she is "using you" rather than the other way around. There is no pride or brag in that as a man. The women are following the OP's frame, so he's not being used for sex by these women.
 

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Spinning plates without fornication..talking to this karaoke singer artist right now…she’s a bit on the older side, but nonetheless still attractive.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spinning plates without fornication..talking to this karaoke singer artist right now…she’s a bit on the older side, but nonetheless still attractive.
WTF is a plate without fornication? You mean a friend?

I honestly don’t get the point of this post unless you’re just looking for validation.
 

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Spinning plates without fornication.. talking to this karaoke singer artist right now…she’s a bit on the older side, but nonetheless still attractive.

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TM this pic appears to be AI generated.

Not to take anything away from your personal charm, but do you think it's possible you've been talking to a bot?
 
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Is that even realistic in this day and age( for a man)?

And why wouldn't he bang like a rabbit being an American in the Philippines?

Might as well find a woman in the states with that mindset..
i get your point. but.... and that point is probably worth a separate topic.

there are multiple paths to enlightenment and happiness... hehe.

can a man be happy with a women in the blue pill fantasy. is the fantasy real... can it be real..

many still think so.

laws and money scale differently in Philippines vs USA. OP will have available line of women. what he does with that line is your point. he will have choice of all levels of good looking to the level most USA only guys could only wish for. it becomes less about what can I get and instead is what do I want.

some points to remember... divorce is illegal.. woman proven to cheat goes to jail along with the guy that is giving it to her. money is survival not just status. but... biology drivers are just the same.....
 

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TM this pic appears to be AI generated.

Not to take anything away from your personal charm, but do you think it's possible you've been talking to a bot?
We spoke in tagalog by texting...or in my case Taglish lol....and yeah it might be AI but she's a real person because she was speaking Filipino slang mixed with english.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We spoke in tagalog by texting...or in my case Taglish lol....and yeah it might be AI but she's a real person because she was speaking Filipino slang mixed with english.
TM, AI bots can speak to humans in two (or more) different languages in one conversation.

Google it.

Not saying that's what's happening, only saying it's a possibility and to stay aware.

K?
 

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TM, AI bots can speak to humans in two (or more) different languages in one conversation.

Google it.

Not saying that's what's happening, only saying it's a possibility and to stay aware.

K?
the ai will not fake the slang. it could... but usually will not if the girl ask him to send money.... then its worth another look.
 
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