These should be required watching for guys

[BPH]

Had a call with @nicksaiz65 and the conversation mostly revolved around escalation, which reminded me of 3 very important video resources that a lot of guys (including those on this forum) would benefit from.

So I went and dug them up.

1. How to Kiss - Very important to get right, no matter what your goal is with the women you meet. The girls from my 110th and 113th LR quite literally told me that when they found out I was such a good kisser, they knew they were going to leave with me. There's a lot more nuance to this than the other topics - you kinda have to "play the field you're on" since HER skill and enthusiasm will come into play. So here's the first video, the guy is a former pornstar who's been nominated for multiple AVN awards, and I think he does a good job describing proper technique:
2. How to Finger - Almost as important, but often overlooked because it's essentially the female version of a handjob. However, I have had MANY experiences with women where they hadn't decided how far they wanted to go with me - but ended up begging me to f*** them after spending a few minutes fingering them. The reason this is such a valuable skill is that it is so much easier to do than anything requiring more nudity; she can keep her clothes on, you can keep your clothes on, and it can be done semi-discreetly (such as in a car, or other semi-public place). All that's required is a few inches of space so that your hand has room to maneuver. Here's the same guy to describe proper technique for that:
3. How to Eat Pu**y - Easily the "least" important on this list, but so many guys are either unwilling to go down - or just really bad at it - so being competent can be a turn-on in and of itself. There is an extremely informative video about this, where 2 female pornstars actually demonstrate what's being described on one another. For this reason, I'm obviously not going to post a porn link on this website, but I will provide the title of the video for those of you who want to open an Incognito browser and give it a watch:
   1. How to Eat Pu**y (Nina Hartley & Sunny Lane)

Hopefully, this helps some guys and doesn't break any rules. If it does, let me know, and I can make a revised version.

 

[Plinco]

Escalation in a sense is more of an art than a science. It depends on who you are and who she is.

Personally, I like to take it slow, be subtly dominant, and tease her.