Husband BlackPill - the reason why married women cheat

[MatureDJ]

(I took this from the transcript.)

A lot of married women ... a couple of reasons they didn't marry the person they truly wanted to marry ... their biological clock hit them and they married who was available at the time and they might have had an ex that they idolized ... they might have had something else, that they didn't marry correctly ... they didn't choose a person that they wanted to marry; they chose a person who wanted to marry them and so they settled ... to begin so they started wrong and that can happen on the alternative side ... it could be when she hasn't felt desired for a really long time and she puts the feeling of needing to feel desired and sexy and attractive as a number one like emotion so she'll put that over and above her family, and she craves that ... so if she's naturally born like quite attention-seeking, or if she married who [sic] wanted to marry her rather than who [sic] she truly wanted to marry, unfortunately she's more prone to cheating ... and also if she grew up with a bit of chaos I find that women that come from single parent homes are far more likely to cheat, and the reason I've noticed that, and the the only hypothesis I can think of is that usually when somebody isn't fulfilling our needs we can go back to a safe haven of two ... we're designed to have two parents that love us ... we've got Mom and Dad two people love us that's how it should be ... now when those two people one of them is absent, you always feel like there's a void so when you're in a relationship, and all of it is on him ... if he stops giving you that love you almost seek it as a backup because you don't want that emptiness that you may have experienced as a child, so they almost have a backup before they can leave the guy they can't just leave and be by themselves because that really feels lonely ... they'd rather leave when they've got somebody else ... it's like having that extra parent in your life like when you have Mom that annoys you, you've always got dad you've got a backup, but when you didn't grow up with that, that being by yourself is really horrible and Lonesome, so if one person's lets them down, they always try and keep a back up in case that person removes their love from them ... it's a safety hatch safety hatch

 

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She seems legit.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Its called people stop realizing that relationships take work and stop doing it. On both sides.

The day you put your relationship on cruise control is the day the countdown timer starts on its demise.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Want to stop your wife from cheating?

Simple:

Don't get married. There is absolutely zero reason for men get married in this modern age knowing the risks. It's a fools' errand for weak men brainwashed by the Disney narrative.

Hard truth.

 

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Want to stop your wife from cheating?

Simple:

Don't get married. There is absolutely zero reason for men get married in this modern age knowing the risks. It's a fools' errand for weak men brainwashed by the Disney narrative.

Hard truth.

What if you want children and to raise them in a traditional household?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Why married people(gender be damned)cheat... As a species, we're not hardwired for monogamy, thus it's actually surprising that divorce rates aren't 90% or higher

 

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In Chinese Taoism a husband and wife might have intimate relations with others if one of them has a higher sex drive than the other. Meaning, if the husband wants sex 3 times per day and the woman wants it every other day, then the guy is permitted to have a mistress to satisfy that need. And vise versa

so it’s not really about cheating, it’s about health and balance. However, some Taoists do believe in monogamy. I prefer monogamy

they also believe in age gap relationships where an older persons health will benefit from having intimacy with a younger person who are more full of vitality

 

[Hamurabimbi]

(I took this from the transcript.)

A lot of married women ... a couple of reasons they didn't marry the person they truly wanted to marry ... their biological clock hit them and they married who was available at the time and they might have had an ex that they idolized ... they might have had something else, that they didn't marry correctly ... they didn't choose a person that they wanted to marry; they chose a person who wanted to marry them and so they settled ... to begin so they started wrong and that can happen on the alternative side ... it could be when she hasn't felt desired for a really long time and she puts the feeling of needing to feel desired and sexy and attractive as a number one like emotion so she'll put that over and above her family, and she craves that ... so if she's naturally born like quite attention-seeking, or if she married who [sic] wanted to marry her rather than who [sic] she truly wanted to marry, unfortunately she's more prone to cheating ... and also if she grew up with a bit of chaos I find that women that come from single parent homes are far more likely to cheat, and the reason I've noticed that, and the the only hypothesis I can think of is that usually when somebody isn't fulfilling our needs we can go back to a safe haven of two ... we're designed to have two parents that love us ... we've got Mom and Dad two people love us that's how it should be ... now when those two people one of them is absent, you always feel like there's a void so when you're in a relationship, and all of it is on him ... if he stops giving you that love you almost seek it as a backup because you don't want that emptiness that you may have experienced as a child, so they almost have a backup before they can leave the guy they can't just leave and be by themselves because that really feels lonely ... they'd rather leave when they've got somebody else ... it's like having that extra parent in your life like when you have Mom that annoys you, you've always got dad you've got a backup, but when you didn't grow up with that, that being by yourself is really horrible and Lonesome, so if one person's lets them down, they always try and keep a back up in case that person removes their love from them ... it's a safety hatch safety hatch

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[craider]

What if you want children and to raise them in a traditional household?

Then you're gonna have a hell of a ride in the USA. Get a prenup and start praying.

In Chinese Taoism a husband and wife might have intimate relations with others if one of them has a higher sex drive than the other. Meaning, if the husband wants sex 3 times per day and the woman wants it every other day, then the guy is permitted to have a mistress to satisfy that need. And vise versa

so it’s not really about cheating, it’s about health and balance. However, some Taoists do believe in monogamy. I prefer monogamy

they also believe in age gap relationships where an older persons health will benefit from having intimacy with a younger person who are more full of vitality

So it's cool if the wife is super horny and wants a young buck too? Your example only covers the typical excuses for men that are found in other cultures too.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

People have been brainwashed into believing that all you need to is show up and get prizes.

Nobody thinks they need to consistently work and grind and manage to keep anything healthy and decent anymore.

Society is cooked.

 

[Dash Riprock]

What if you want children and to raise them in a traditional household?

You can be in a loving, caring, monogamous relationship without the $35,000 wedding (US average), $6000 ring (US average), and $11,000 for the divorce (US average) if and when it happens (60% chance).

If the woman wants to be with you, she will likely be disappointed but understand. She's marrying you and not the ceremony and ring, right? If she pushed back too hard or worse, gives you an ultimatum like "I want a ring and a nice wedding!!", well then you have your answer on what she’s really after, don't you.

All the "marriage bliss" wears off really fast as reality and life sets in. Then what? All bets are off. The ceremony, the vows, the gifts, the ring, they really don't mean much of anything. If wedding vows and everything that comes with the ceremony were so binding you wouldn’t' have a 60% divorce rate and women now normalizing micro and macro cheating on the regular.

And in the event you do get divorced, you will likely lose 50% of your possessions and wealth and have to pay her alimony even if she remarries in some states. You may also have to pay for her attorney for the divorce, too.

So tell me if you think marriage is worth the risk in 2026?

 

[Gamisch]

You can be in a loving, caring, monogamous relationship without the $35,000 wedding (US average), $6000 ring (US average), and $11,000 for the divorce (US average) if and when it happens (60% chance).

If the woman wants to be with you, she will likely be disappointed but understand. She's marrying you and not the ceremony and ring, right? If she pushed back too hard or worse, gives you an ultimatum like "I want a ring and a nice wedding!!", well then you have your answer on what she’s really after, don't you.

All the "marriage bliss" wears off really fast as reality and life sets in. Then what? All bets are off. The ceremony, the vows, the gifts, the ring, they really don't mean much of anything. If wedding vows and everything that comes with the ceremony were so binding you wouldn’t' have a 60% divorce rate and women now normalizing micro and macro cheating on the regular.

And in the event you do get divorced, you will likely lose 50% of your possessions and wealth and have to pay her alimony even if she remarries in some states. You may also have to pay for her attorney for the divorce, too.

So tell me if you think marriage is worth the risk in 2026?

What I've noticed is that these stats make the flex even bigger. Many narcissistic men who happen to have some kind of traditionalists behind him will double down on getting married. And that can also be her parents/ brothers/ even friends or colleagues.

Akin to such a person saying, "I dont know why every has trouble buying a house, I just got one!"

In many western countries it also a way how for example Muslims shyte on Christians , As the men feom the latter would also love to flex the marriage, but their women simple don't allow them to.

 

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Old school religion is really smarter than most of us

it always says for marriage and calls for The females to not sleep around

its not like some torturous religious doctrine, it’s just common sense