Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
This is what women also do, and many men miss the signs.That’s your job, to create the conditions under which romance can just "happen".
I think it's hilarious when they do. Women ESPECIALLY do this when they know you're not interested in them anymore or when they suspect you're fooling around with other women. "Help me move a piece of furniture?" "Do my tires need to be replaced?" "You know just because we're not together doesn't mean we can't still have a game of darts or pool." Sly and alluring creatures they are! Translation: "I miss your p3nis."This is what women also do, and many men miss the signs.
I saw a friend do something, but not for seduction.
I don't know if it's relevant, but it could be a reference to what you're saying.
His male son was born, and my friend always loved soccer, so he's started coaching a children's team.
I think he's "preparing" the groundwork for his son when he's 5 or 6, so he's also understood the environment he's playing in.
Think about the goal, and prepare the groundwork.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Oh yes I've got many of that."Help me move a piece of furniture?" "Do my tires need to be replaced?" "You know just because we're not together doesn't mean we can't still have a game of darts or pool." Sly and alluring creatures they are! Translation: "I miss your p3nis."