Yes, this is actually the real problem. This is not just about the girl, it is a problem in general.
I only open my mouth when I am very comfortable, and they say I can talk a lot.
Apart from that, I have a hard time in general.
I can do that things. I have a problem with starting and continue conversation. Because there is not an topic. So there's nothing I must to say.
I can be a speaker at a presentation attended by a few hundred people because those people come to listen to me. But I can't speak to random people because they are there spontaneously at that moment.
My Friend, please read this long message.
You don't know who I am, where I live or what I experience.
When I tried what I saw on this site before, I was also thought to be a harasser. But the "fear of your sexuality" ideas on this site helped me lose my virginity.
I am 22 years old. I am learning it late. Also, the main problem is not girls but my sociality. I can't go and start a conversation with someone. If it is a very close friend, I talk a lot, if not, I can't talk at all.
For these reasons, people started not taking me seriously.
It looks ridiculous and very lame, doesn't it? But a while ago, I was a speaker at a medical conference with hundreds of people. So rest assured, I am more than the lame person you think. I just write the negative things in my mind on this site and seek help. And almost all of these are related to sociality.
Because I repeat, I grew up with computers for years and my sociality is not good.
As for the girl from last year. I no longer have the chance to see her face to face. I don't write on social media, but how will I see her, do you think? Yes, I won't. So sometimes I think I need to change your mind because these days these things are going on social media. Especially if you are in a place like me.
I am always in the same hospital. When I talk to 3 people face to face from the hospital, I get the impression that he is "trying to talk to every girl". And none of the girls like the result.
This happened 2 years ago. I don't want it to happen again. And I am asking my questions here.
I am grateful for you trying to help me. I also really want to hear your ideas. Because I realized that as a man I need to get rid of my passivity and cowardice.
But if I can't bench press 150 kg tomorrow, you can't expect me to be perfect all of a sudden.
So I am asking you, if you are not going to help, please don't sabotage my process.
So if you have a suggestion, I want to hear it, but I have to shape it according to where I live and myself. Different dynamics..
There are situations like when he told me to go out and talk to girls and I learned that there were only 2 streets where I lived and 2 of the last 5 people I talked to were friends. D
So I can't do everything at once. For example, I can't go and find a pub. Because there isn't one.
By the way, doctors really thought I was autistic when I was little

I don't know but I'm still laughing too.