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Dude swipes right on 2 Million Women, Gets 1 Date, 0 Sex

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This guy swiped right on 2,020,459 women on Tinder over a 5 year period and only matched with 2,053 women. That's a match rate of less than 1/10th of a percent (.001016).

Guy is a 26 year old and probably Sub 5. He's somewhat overweight but not ridiculously obese. He's probably in the 4 range.

I'm trying to think about how he swiped on 2 million women. I live in one of the biggest cities in the USA and it would be challenging to swipe on over 2 million here. I would have to set a wider radius than I have typically set and swipe on women traveling through the airports here to make that happen. I'm unsure if he just swiped on women in his own age range (21-26 during the last 5 years) or swiped on substantially older women.

I'm thinking that this guy lives in one of the bigger USA cities and that's part of how he got 2 million right swipes. He also had to pay for the unlimited swiping membership tier.

He's 26 years old right now and been on Tinder from ages 21-26. Women tend to value age 21-26 year old men mostly on looks. I would like to think he has mostly been swiping on women near his own age during the last 5 years. The guy doesn't have the looks to be considered a good casual sex partner, which is most important on the swipe app most oriented towards casual sex. Bumble and Hinge are more relationship oriented than Tinder. He might do slightly better in that format but women's hypergamy would prevent him from doing much better there either. He's likely not very relationship worthy based on his photos.

I have read in the comments of the video that Tinder might have shadowbanned him at some point and that the quantity of women that he swiped on wouldn't allow him to do things like work or have any sort of personal life. He swiped on over 1,000 women per day for over 5 years. I'm guessing he didn't read much in the way of profiles and swiped right based on 1-2 pictures, not spending more than 1-2 seconds on an actual profile. It's possible to swipe right on 1,000 women if you don't spend significant time on their profiles.

This is the type of male who would do better in some sort of real world scenario. Forming a social circle is probably his best option. Women he meets through mutual acquaintances/hobbies are most likely to fairly evaluate him. Women on swipe apps are giving him less than 2 seconds of evaluation before swiping left. I don't see this guy as a guy who would stand out in any nightlife venue. Daygame is likely going to be tough for him too. It's doubtful that he's charismatic enough to do well in daygame. Additionally, daygame is inefficient as the majority of women between ages 18-49 aren't seeking new penis at the moment they are approached in a non-bar setting.

If he swiped over 2 million times, that tells me that he has no social circle options. He is also likely a chronic porn watcher and masturbator who lacks a commanding presence in either nightlife approaching or in daygame. He also doesn't have enough money/possessions to impress women.

There's an essential side note to the video I posted. It's a 10+ minute long video. The first 6 minutes cover the story of the dismal app swiper. The last 4 minutes discuss a political ideology topic. Don't watch that part or comment on it based on the forum rules here. I wouldn't want the discussion of this topic sidetracked by that. I doubt that would happen given this topic but I did want to mention it.
 
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This is one of those guy who would strongly benefit from a radical life style change.

He needs to get his life style in check (diet, gym, daily activities outside of work)..that would change his body and personality in a more effective way toward getting women and an overall better quality of life.

A better biology makes wonder for your body and equally for your head.

Anyway in 2025 whoever is not a stereotypical chad with all the right features, photos and lines would better stay away from online dating in any western country.
 

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That article published in 2015 and was based on 2014-15 Tinder conditions.

10 years later, it is still true.

I think there's an argument that Tinder has gotten even more difficult in the last 10 years.

I have not used dating apps in multiple years. Before I stopped using them, I was noticing that my Tinder outcomes were getting worse than my Bumble and Hinge outcomes. All 3 platforms were shiit though.
 

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These online apps are not always reflection of "real life" in my experience.

2 Million over 5 years is way too much time/effort to stick to something doesn't work. I try tinder few years ago, used for about two months. I swiped on maybe 100 girls during this time (one's I like I did not just select any girl). Mostly no match and the one's that were seemed/I felt to be a scam. I was meeting girls off the app so I did not understand. I just took down profile/deleted the app because found it no help.

Many girls I talk to speak poorly of them/have bad opinion of men on it. It's probably a good thing to not be successful on them. Most girls want to meet guys organically, like through friends, in a class or event where's common interest or something.
 

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2 Million over 5 years is way too much time/effort to stick to something doesn't work.
He likely has no real life options. He also didn't want to put years into developing a social circle that may/may not ever be able to introduce him to a woman. That's a big problem with social circle game. It can take years to develop one and that's difficult to do while horny and in urgent sexual need. Men with an urgent sexual need will swipe, send DMs, or even real life approach.

Most girls want to meet guys organically, like through friends, in a class or event where's common interest or something.
That's what women want and those sorts of interactions have the best chance for lasting some significant period of time.

Same night sex from a bar rarely ever turns into anything lasting. This thread below is an example of that.


App swiping usually leads to "one date, no sex, no second date" when a date actually happens. It's usually the woman rejecting the man's 2nd date offer when there's no first date sex.

Top tier men will smash on app arranged first dates often with average to slightly cute range women. This might result in some more future sex but it's likely going to be short term since because a man who is an 8.5 is not going to commit long term to a woman who is a 6.
 

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That's more than a 1000 swipes per day..I think this is bs.

If it is true; ofcourse he got shadow banned due to "power swiping ".

On a deeper level: it's simultaneously a reflection of today's dating environment. Strangely enough every sub5 female has a bf but every sub7 man seems to be alone..

Good thing the oldest profession in the world s booming more than ever...
 

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That's more than a 1000 swipes per day..I think this is bs.
1,000 swipes per day is possible though a bad idea for many reasons.

If it is true; ofcourse he got shadow banned due to "power swiping ".
The possibility of shadow banning was mentioned in the comments.

On a deeper level: it's simultaneously a reflection of today's dating environment. Strangely enough every sub5 female has a bf but every sub7 man seems to be alone..
This seems to be the case in a lot of Western countries. Women can find boyfriends and/or short term sex easily but mid-tier men seem to be struggling. I think there's more and more data to validate that observation.
 

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This seems to be the case in a lot of Western countries. Women can find boyfriends and/or short term sex easily but mid-tier men seem to be struggling.
What is a mid-tier man?
 

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What is a mid-tier man?
A man whose sexual market value is neither too high or too low.

It's a man is who is neither very good looking nor is he very ugly. He does not stand out in terms of income or net worth either.
 

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He should have worn a fake ankle monitor in one of his photos.
 

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Don’t trust everything you see on the internet. Unless there’s consistent, verifiable evidence that this guy swiped on a million women and didn’t get a single date, while accounting for variables like his opening message, time of day, pictures, bio, and so on, I usually place them in the same category as other people seeking views, attention, or sympathy.
 

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This guy swiped right on 2,020,459 women on Tinder over a 5 year period and only matched with 2,053 women. That's a match rate of less than 1/10th of a percent (.001016).

Guy is a 26 year old and probably Sub 5. He's somewhat overweight but not ridiculously obese. He's probably in the 4 range.

I'm trying to think about how he swiped on 2 million women. I live in one of the biggest cities in the USA and it would be challenging to swipe on over 2 million here. I would have to set a wider radius than I have typically set and swipe on women traveling through the airports here to make that happen. I'm unsure if he just swiped on women in his own age range (21-26 during the last 5 years) or swiped on substantially older women.

I'm thinking that this guy lives in one of the bigger USA cities and that's part of how he got 2 million right swipes. He also had to pay for the unlimited swiping membership tier.

He's 26 years old right now and been on Tinder from ages 21-26. Women tend to value age 21-26 year old men mostly on looks. I would like to think he has mostly been swiping on women near his own age during the last 5 years. The guy doesn't have the looks to be considered a good casual sex partner, which is most important on the swipe app most oriented towards casual sex. Bumble and Hinge are more relationship oriented than Tinder. He might do slightly better in that format but women's hypergamy would prevent him from doing much better there either. He's likely not very relationship worthy based on his photos.

I have read in the comments of the video that Tinder might have shadowbanned him at some point and that the quantity of women that he swiped on wouldn't allow him to do things like work or have any sort of personal life. He swiped on over 1,000 women per day for over 5 years. I'm guessing he didn't read much in the way of profiles and swiped right based on 1-2 pictures, not spending more than 1-2 seconds on an actual profile. It's possible to swipe right on 1,000 women if you don't spend significant time on their profiles.

This is the type of male who would do better in some sort of real world scenario. Forming a social circle is probably his best option. Women he meets through mutual acquaintances/hobbies are most likely to fairly evaluate him. Women on swipe apps are giving him less than 2 seconds of evaluation before swiping left. I don't see this guy as a guy who would stand out in any nightlife venue. Daygame is likely going to be tough for him too. It's doubtful that he's charismatic enough to do well in daygame. Additionally, daygame is inefficient as the majority of women between ages 18-49 aren't seeking new penis at the moment they are approached in a non-bar setting.

If he swiped over 2 million times, that tells me that he has no social circle options. He is also likely a chronic porn watcher and masturbator who lacks a commanding presence in either nightlife approaching or in daygame. He also doesn't have enough money/possessions to impress women.

There's an essential side note to the video I posted. It's a 10+ minute long video. The first 6 minutes cover the story of the dismal app swiper. The last 4 minutes discuss a political ideology topic. Don't watch that part or comment on it based on the forum rules here. I wouldn't want the discussion of this topic sidetracked by that. I doubt that would happen given this topic but I did want to mention it.
It's OVER for RejectionMillionaireCels.

Here is the post about this in our brother forum:
 
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This guy swiped right on 2,020,459 women on Tinder over a 5 year period and only matched with 2,053 women. That's a match rate of less than 1/10th of a percent (.001016).

Guy is a 26 year old and probably Sub 5. He's somewhat overweight but not ridiculously obese. He's probably in the 4 range.

I'm trying to think about how he swiped on 2 million women.
I think he's a NearObeseCel - with enough obesity that even obese chicks avoid him - and he is wearing a baseball cap in all photos, so not only is he probably a BaldCel, but the Tinder chicks presume that as well. His only hope is SE Asia - or if he is into Brown Sugar, an Afro-Latina. :eek::eek::eek::eek:

The 2 million swipe level could very well have repeats. Back when I would look at Tinder, I would notice the same chicks - I even noticed a gal that I was getting erotic message (i.e., "rub & tug") sessions with. :eek::eek: (Perhaps I should have brought up with her, LOL.)
 
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This guy swiped right on 2,020,459 women on Tinder over a 5 year period and only matched with 2,053 women. That's a match rate of less than 1/10th of a percent (.001016).

Guy is a 26 year old and probably Sub 5. He's somewhat overweight but not ridiculously obese. He's probably in the 4 range.
As recently as The 90s, a fella like this would've soothed his urges by acquiring a stun gun and a van, soundproofing his basement, then making a few dozen tweenyboppers vanish while walking home from Baskin Robbins

Let's all be grateful the internet is around to keep gents of this ilk occupied today
 

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I think he's a NearObeseCel - with enough obesity that even obese chicks avoid him - and he is wearing a baseball cap in all photos, so not only is he probably a BaldCel, but the Tinder chicks presume that as well. His only hope is SE Asia - or if he is into Brown Sugar, an Afro-Latina. :eek::eek::eek::eek:
It would be challenging to have balding issues around ages 23-26. Being somewhat advanced on the Norwood scale then will hurt chances more than being more advanced on the Norwood scale at ages 40+. @Mike32ct has his famous "height, hair, money" statement for more mature men for sexual success. @Mike32ct also noticed his success with women dropped after he got further along on the Norwood scale but he was older when that happened.

Most USA don't end up traveling to get pussie. Yes, there are Western men like @MatureDJ who leave their native Western countries in order to try to get sex in East Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe. I'm not sure that @MatureDJ has done much better overseas than he did as a USA resident in terms of getting poon.

That guy who swiped 2 million times is doing everything wrong. If he's bald, he needs a hair transplant. He also needs to improve his diet, lift weights, and play a sport. He also needs to improve his social circle. Approaching strangers in the real world is difficult. There is an illusion of efficiency in sitting at home in a t-shirt and underwear and trying to meet women as compared to showering, getting dressed, and approaching women in either traditional daygame venues or a bar/nightlife venue.
 
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