What is up with these weirdos?

[Oatmeal31]

I cold approach most of the time and when I do, I aim to make the girl laugh, blush and get comfortable. Most of the time, it's a positive reaction regardless of the outcome

But on two occasions now, I've had weirdos come up, insert themselves and try to "protect" her. Just today I was cold approaching, got a few leads, and went into a different area. On one of the approaches, I came up to an Asian girl and she was laughing, smiling, saying thanks, and some fking weirdo in the passenger seat of a truck yells, AYE SHE DON'T WANT YOU BRO LEAVE HER ALONE. Never saw him b4.

lmao I flipped him off, she stayed in front of me the whole time. At that point I turned to her, she was still smiling and I said I don't wanna make you uncomfortable, have a good day. She said thanks and we parted. In fact, I felt I should of committed because she was still into it.

Another time, probably a couple months ago now, I was by the lake, came up to a girl that was stretching, introduced myself, and some weird out of shape middle aged redhead dude came from behind slowly jogging and said, "Do you know him?" She said no, and then he said leave her alone dude and jogged away. Wtf? This is hysterical. She said she didn't know him after he left. But it kinda ruined the set, because I felt like they get slammed with my approach and their insertion.

I've done at least a few hundred approaches by now, so I guess something odd is gonna happen from time to time, but I find it sad that they're these small **** dudes that ****block and run away. At least stand and say it to my face.

I've had dudes c0ckblock when I approach mixed groups too. So fking weird dude.

Guess what? I'm gonna keep going. I got a couple leads today

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

dudes like that are too scared to approach on their own, or even talk to girls.

Their only hope for female interaction is a drive-by beta-protector.

 

[BPH]

This kinda ties in with my advice I gave on the group approach thread about not getting emotional, but applying it to others who enter the set too, as opposed to whoever is already there.

On one of the approaches, I came up to an Asian girl and she was laughing, smiling, saying thanks, and some fking weirdo in the passenger seat of a truck yells, AYE SHE DON'T WANT YOU BRO LEAVE HER ALONE. Never saw him b4.

lmao I flipped him off, she stayed in front of me the whole time. At that point I turned to her, she was still smiling and I said I don't wanna make you uncomfortable, have a good day. She said thanks and we parted. In fact, I felt I should of committed because she was still into it.

Sounds like you self-ejected. The guy in the truck might've thrown you off, but she clearly didn't care. Just make fun of it: "Ooh, yeah that guy might be a better fit for you. Nothing says 'manly' like a guy yelling insults from the passenger seat."

She'd probably have laughed, and you could've continued.

Another time, probably a couple months ago now, I was by the lake, came up to a girl that was stretching, introduced myself, and some weird out of shape middle aged redhead dude came from behind slowly jogging and said, "Do you know him?" She said no, and then he said leave her alone dude and jogged away. Wtf? This is hysterical. She said she didn't know him after he left. But it kinda ruined the set, because I felt like they get slammed with my approach and their insertion.

So when this happens and they're NOT just going right by as with the truck guy, all you have to do is take the wind out of their sails: "Oh hey, is this your boyfriend?" "No/No, I don't know him." "Oh, ok, hey, thanks for stopping by, man." Then continue the conversation like this person isn't there. At that point, most people will feel awkward about you standing your ground and making them feel unimportant, so they'll self-eject.

It's annoying. Reminds me of that infamous woke Gillette commercial where the white guy was standing outside a store when a girl walked by. He gets up to walk over to talk to her, and this random black guy stands in front of him to stop him, saying "bro...not cool, not cool."

The fact that I still remember it all these years later should be evidence of how withnessing such intense bit**a**ness pissed me off enough that I can still recall it.

 

[MatureDJ]

dudes like that are too scared to approach on their own, or even talk to girls.

Their only hope for female interaction is a drive-by beta-protector.

I could not have done a better job at explaining this. That said, these men could be Plutonian orbiters (i.e., farthest away) that are defending their hopelessly minute chance of getting with her, with the omega-protector action hopefully putting them into a closer, Neptunian orbit.

 

[Oatmeal31]

This kinda ties in with my advice I gave on the group approach thread about not getting emotional, but applying it to others who enter the set too, as opposed to whoever is already there.



Sounds like you self-ejected. The guy in the truck might've thrown you off, but she clearly didn't care. Just make fun of it: "Ooh, yeah that guy might be a better fit for you. Nothing says 'manly' like a guy yelling insults from the passenger seat."

She'd probably have laughed, and you could've continued.



So when this happens and they're NOT just going right by as with the truck guy, all you have to do is take the wind out of their sails: "Oh hey, is this your boyfriend?" "No/No, I don't know him." "Oh, ok, hey, thanks for stopping by, man." Then continue the conversation like this person isn't there. At that point, most people will feel awkward about you standing your ground and making them feel unimportant, so they'll self-eject.

It's annoying. Reminds me of that infamous woke Gillette commercial where the white guy was standing outside a store when a girl walked by. He gets up to walk over to talk to her, and this random black guy stands in front of him to stop him, saying "bro...not cool, not cool."

The fact that I still remember it all these years later should be evidence of how withnessing such intense bit**a**ness pissed me off enough that I can still recall it.

Yeah, I think one of the lowest things you can do as a supposed man is to c0ckblock other men.

Friendly fire, where's your dignity? You think you're impressing anyone? If anything it just weirds the girl out. It's much more pathetic than a girl doing it.

It's easier to think about those things to say in hindsight but truth is, is that it so rarely happens that it even catches me off guard a bit. My natural reaction is to respond with some irritation like flipping the guy off as they drove away. I thought about following the redhead guy and threatening him tbh lmao but let it go

I'll keep those things in mind next time it happens

 

[SW15]

This is a beta male tactic and also a sign of deepening male thirst.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I cold approach most of the time and when I do, I aim to make the girl laugh, blush and get comfortable. Most of the time, it's a positive reaction regardless of the outcome

But on two occasions now, I've had weirdos come up, insert themselves and try to "protect" her. Just today I was cold approaching, got a few leads, and went into a different area. On one of the approaches, I came up to an Asian girl and she was laughing, smiling, saying thanks, and some fking weirdo in the passenger seat of a truck yells, AYE SHE DON'T WANT YOU BRO LEAVE HER ALONE. Never saw him b4.

lmao I flipped him off, she stayed in front of me the whole time. At that point I turned to her, she was still smiling and I said I don't wanna make you uncomfortable, have a good day. She said thanks and we parted. In fact, I felt I should of committed because she was still into it.

Another time, probably a couple months ago now, I was by the lake, came up to a girl that was stretching, introduced myself, and some weird out of shape middle aged redhead dude came from behind slowly jogging and said, "Do you know him?" She said no, and then he said leave her alone dude and jogged away. Wtf? This is hysterical. She said she didn't know him after he left. But it kinda ruined the set, because I felt like they get slammed with my approach and their insertion.

I've done at least a few hundred approaches by now, so I guess something odd is gonna happen from time to time, but I find it sad that they're these small **** dudes that ****block and run away. At least stand and say it to my face.

I've had dudes c0ckblock when I approach mixed groups too. So fking weird dude.

Guess what? I'm gonna keep going. I got a couple leads today

Gillette soy-boy’s protecting muh lady from your toxic masculinity.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Reminds me of what happened at a convention. I wound up sitting at a group table next to a young lady. Drinks flowed freely and we wound up doing some lite kissing and such.
The next day, I ran into a couple of guys who were at our table the night before. One said to me: ‘you were all over that girl last night. I was going to intervene, but she seemed to like it.’

 

[Bible_Belt]

"Are you her girlfriend? I'm so sorry. I don't mean to appear transphobic. I support your community.

 

[Oatmeal31]

Reminds me of what happened at a convention. I wound up sitting at a group table next to a young lady. Drinks flowed freely and we wound up doing some lite kissing and such.
The next day, I ran into a couple of guys who were at our table the night before. One said to me: ‘you were all over that girl last night. I was going to intervene, but she seemed to like it.’

What a weird and lame thing to say. Feels the need to police and white knight random girls

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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I cold approach most of the time and when I do, I aim to make the girl laugh, blush and get comfortable. Most of the time, it's a positive reaction regardless of the outcome

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But on two occasions now, I've had weirdos come up, insert themselves and try to "protect" her. Just today I was cold approaching, got a few leads, and went into a different area. On one of the approaches, I came up to an Asian girl and she was laughing, smiling, saying thanks, and some fking weirdo in the passenger seat of a truck yells, AYE SHE DON'T WANT YOU BRO LEAVE HER ALONE. Never saw him b4.

lmao I flipped him off, she stayed in front of me the whole time. At that point I turned to her, she was still smiling and I said I don't wanna make you uncomfortable, have a good day. She said thanks and we parted. In fact, I felt I should of committed because she was still into it.

Another time, probably a couple months ago now, I was by the lake, came up to a girl that was stretching, introduced myself, and some weird out of shape middle aged redhead dude came from behind slowly jogging and said, "Do you know him?" She said no, and then he said leave her alone dude and jogged away. Wtf? This is hysterical. She said she didn't know him after he left. But it kinda ruined the set, because I felt like they get slammed with my approach and their insertion.

I've done at least a few hundred approaches by now, so I guess something odd is gonna happen from time to time, but I find it sad that they're these small **** dudes that ****block and run away. At least stand and say it to my face.

I've had dudes c0ckblock when I approach mixed groups too. So fking weird dude.

Guess what? I'm gonna keep going. I got a couple leads today

Dude getting G-checked, by guys that look like this..

 

[Dr.Suave]

Yes, weirdos mixed with "crabs in a bucket".

 

[Gamisch]

This is a beta male tactic and also a sign of deepening male thirst.

Something like this.

You'll see this a lot at parties. There can be some sexy women dancing while the general vine is that " nobody males a move" UNTILL that one dude does make a move. Most guys will silently hope he fails. Why? Because they failed themselves by default because they wouldn't approach them anyway.

Kinda like a crabs in the bucket mentality. It's actually quite an interesting topic. Those men react on a primal level , it's an outburst of anger. I also geuss that for most men it's less scary to pick a fight with another man versus approaching a (beautiful) woman. That shows that the ego oftentimes is completely wrongly calibrated. A fight can mean death, a rejection..doesn't mean shyte.

 

[CoolWave1331]

It's jealousy, not everyone wants to see you succeed.

Some guys cannot act and just watch women from afar. When a man approaches someone they find attractive, they don't like this and try to sabotage.

Just laugh and ignore them. These are not 'cool' guys. If you speak with women they'll tell you this is stupid behavior. Looks weak.

 

[zekko]

It's annoying. Reminds me of that infamous woke Gillette commercial where the white guy was standing outside a store when a girl walked by. He gets up to walk over to talk to her, and this random black guy stands in front of him to stop him, saying "bro...not cool, not cool."

The fact that I still remember it all these years later should be evidence of how withnessing such intense bit**a**ness pissed me off enough that I can still recall it

I remember that commercial, it was aimed at what they called toxic masculinity. They were saying guys should stand up for the girls getting hit on to protect them. What a weak crock, it pissed me off also. And a lot of other guys as well. There was talk in the manosphere about boycotting Gillette, I don't know if their sales ever actually took a hit or not. I've always used Gillette, and I still have a big box of their razors from back then that I had gotten as a gift. I ended up growing a beard. Gillette was spitting in the faces of their main customers - males. I guess they would prefer guys remain incels rather than try to interact with the opposite sex.

 

[BPH]

I remember that commercial, it was aimed at what they called toxic masculinity. They were saying guys should stand up for the girls getting hit on to protect them. What a weak crock, it pissed me off also. And a lot of other guys as well. There was talk in the manosphere about boycotting Gillette, I don't know if their sales ever actually took a hit or not. I've always used Gillette, and I still have a big box of their razors from back then that I had gotten as a gift. I ended up growing a beard. Gillette was spitting in the faces of their main customers - males. I guess they would prefer guys remain incels rather than try to interact with the opposite sex.

Yep, they pulled a Bud Light before it was cool.

 

[BadBoy89]

I was at BMW dealership last week for some repairs. I walked in the store is a girl and guy beside each other standing at the Customer Service desk. The girl is like 28, looks OK and the guy is bald at 40. I've talked to him at dealership before, he doesn't speak great English. Anyway I want to talk to the girl to say "I'm here for repairs" but there is a customer talking to the girl and he is really taking his time. So I'm getting nervous. The guy in a not so nice tone says "Can I help you?" So I get pissed off because I want to talk to girl, but she is talking to the Customer. So I say very loudly and angrily "Yes, I'm here for BMW repairs" VERY LOUDLY. He kind of jumped back and the girl and Customer looked at me too.

I don't know why if I go on a date with hot girl and she tells me to "go to hell" when I ask for 2nd date, I'm OK with it. But if I go to a coffee shop or small store to get some errand done, and there is hot girl to flirt with but aren't able to because she is talking to another guy, THAT pisses me off.

Maybe because the 1st instance saves me money? I don't know.

 

[Barrister]

It’s rare but I’ve had this happen during cold approach before. One instance (non-cold approach) particularly stands out to me as I had a bar I frequented a few years ago where I had become very well acquainted with the very hot bartender there over many visits. I remember one night kind of busting for a few minutes on her in a flirtatious way and asking for a number (she was smiling and lauhhing) and some “bro” looking guy (like 35ish with full beard and ball cap on backwards) who was also at the bar out of nowhere goes “Dude, give it rest man she’s working!” I literally asked him if he always white knights at bars and he looked at me with a blank stare and said nothing.

I feel like whenever a man does this kind of thing he’s telling you so much about himself. You can assume they are very plugged in and blue pilled and probably believe the girl is some innocent Disney princess that they’re protecting from the big bad man who just won’t leave them alone and control himself. Sad really.

 

[SW15]

white knights.. It’s rare but I’ve had this happen during cold approach before

Many years ago, I was at a bar. I was interacting with some co-workers of one of my acquaintances. I was talking to some mid female and all of a sudden some Indian / Indian-American guy goes apeshiit crazy on me because I was supposedly talking to his girlfriend.

I was barely even interested in this female and then this guy white knights like a maniac. Insane! I did back off more on account of lower interest but that guy white knighting his supposed girlfriend was ridiculous.

 

[crowolf]

Perhaps that's a good opportunity to solidify your frame and build more attraction.

Make fun of it. Imagine some guy appears out of nowhere and tries to white-knight c0ckblock you by saying to the girl "do you know him?". Then you can say "no, I'm gonna kidnap her. my free candy bus is right down there the parking lot". Obviously you say that with a grin and jokingly. It should disarm the other guy, as he will have nothing to say to this, if you did it with the right energy. Just an example of how you can play out this situation.

Or maybe you look like a creep and the guys are actually concerned for the women. But I doubt that is the case.