Absolutely it's a **** test. It's like when a girl says I'm not going to sleep with you I'm 5 minutes later she's touching your crotch. There's a few ways you can pass it so here are some examples that I like to use:
"I'm looking for my third wife so I am very serious about this.."
"As a man of God, we frown upon sins like friends with benefits."
"Wow slow down girl. I'm a virgin so you have to be gentle."
"Wow slow down, I don't know you well enough to be thinking that."
"Ah is that what you say to all the guys? That's a nice chat up line."
And remember to use the correct body language tone and intonation when you say one of these lines. Make sure it comes lighthearted with a smirk on your face and then you can just move the conversation on.
Isn't all that just falling into "her" frame though? Why not maintain
your frame and be real with her?
If you believe it's a shyt test (which is a manipulation and bs), be real and tell her you're not seeking serious at the moment, wish her well, and let
her fall into YOUR frame? Let her be the one scrambling around trying to find the perfect response to backtrack.
The reason why women give these shots tests is because they work. Most men are so thirsty, they scramble around trying to find the perfect response to pass the test, thus falling into
her frame.
There was a recent thread discussing the power of not being afraid to walk away. It applies here and if you had an abundance mindset, you wouldn't be so thirsty for this one chick, and you'd walk away from her and any woman who give these manipulative shyt tests or who don't want what YOU want.
If she's
not shyt testing and was being real with you, you should walk cause you're not on the same wavelength, wasting time and money that would be better spent on women who are more flexible and willing to take things one day at a time allowing things to happen naturally.
No need to lie or mislead her imo. That's as bad as her shyt test.
$.02.