Recent content by WorstPossibleOutcome

I appreciate your bluntness. (Is that an AFC thing to say?) Thing is, her past victims all kind of resent each other now. I just can't figure out if my friendship with those guys, which will help me in my career for decades to come, is worth more to me than a one- or two- or three-night stand...

Heh. As I ran down your list, I thought to myself, "Yes...no...too late (already spent a lot of time with her)...yes...maybe later". Thanks for your efficient reply!

I attended a very small arts college, and graduated in February. Everyone from my old class (all 22 of us) still hang out regularly (mostly in smaller groups). There's one girl who has slept with about a third of the guys in the class. Maybe she has a short attention span for guys, or maybe...

Very sorry. It was a n00b mistake. I thought this forum was for people who NEEEDED tips. Thanks though!

I am a painfully shy guy. I am almost 21 and I have never had a relationship before. I have never had casual sex either. I am terrified of intimacy, but crave it at the same time. Pathetic, I know, but I can't really help it. Anyway, I met this really cool girl last week. We spent most of...

I believe that my biggest failing as a man is the fact that it takes me WAAY WAAY FAR FAR TOO LONG to move on after being rejected. I only end up hitting on about 15-20 women a year, because after one of them says "no" I am usually crushingly depressed for about two weeks. I am so pathetic :p...

THAT...is amazingly accurate. Bravo. I think my personality combines the worst of these two. I am too clean-cut to attract bass groupies and too psychotic to attract keys groupies. :mad: Thanks for the tips. I have been working on my two-handed tapping technique on bass. It looks...

Safari, I have seen the exact same pecking order that you are talking about. It is a frustrating state of affairs. I think the reason "lead singer" is at the top is because he is probably the most self-confident by nature. As luck would have it, I double on keyboards...and woodwinds. I've got...

In reference to what? My first question, or my second?:o

...or is there more to it than that? I'm 20 years old and I play bass. I'm damn good at it too, if I do say so myself. Yet I have no idea how to parlay this into an advantage in dating. Whenever my band plays bar gigs, the audience is 95% male. If I'm chatting up a girl someplace, and I...