Recent content by vlf445

So why not be the beach bod with a personality? I'm with zekko here, there's no reason you can't be her provider and her lover.

I absolutely love this question. I'll offer my opinion, but I always say take other people's answers, including mine, with a grain of salt. From a natural perspective, and as DonGorgon said, the basic point is to perpetuate the species...but we have so much time in our lives, and the power...

I just finished reading a thread on reddit about cheating girlfriends/boyfriends and everyone's experiences, and god d@mn that was depressing. After reading it, I got a little introspective and realized that I only really trust 3 people in my life. And by trust, I mean having complete faith in...

It's easy to forget this sometimes in the heat of the moment. This is a thought I have had a lot before slipping into old thought patterns, I appreciate you refreshing my psyche. In the spirit of one of my favorite posters, Brazilian Blues Boy, its time to go out and arise and keep on winning!

I'm in a rush so I'll have to get back to you on this, just wanted to bump this to keep this at the top. This is a great a idea, thanks for posting it.

There was albino girl in my gradeschool. I admit, I never talked to her much, but from what I could tell she was never teased or bullied for her condition. She did however keep to herself, so I'm sure her condition was affecting her confidence. I can't offer much advice/help/experience...

I have strongly considered the military before, becuase I thought it might "man me up". I never ended making that choice, but I'm keeping the option in my back pocket just in case. As of now I'm just getting through school, working an internship a few days a week, and wondering what my future...

I wrote this post while I was high actually. Smoking weed used to make me relax and escape life, now it makes me think about myself and where I am headed in life, for better or worse. Also, thanks for the thoughtful post AtomSmasher, especially the "Magic Story". It really did have a...

Thank you all for the responses. I appreciate them more than you know.

I'm posting in the mature man section because I'm looking for advice from those who have some years of widsom on me. I'm a 21 year old senior in college, graduating this upcoming May. But if anyone has any advice on these thoughts I'm having, please pass them along. I still feel...

Those last 2 posts are like the two sides of my mind that have been battling since I broke it off. . .

Thanks man, I appreciate this a lot. What made me come to this site just now was that I was considering going back to her. . .I had some ambivalence about breaking it off in the first place because she was more than I could have asked for in so many ways. Completely loyal, trusting, like...

That's what SOME women do, as well as what SOME men do. I'm not looking down on what choice you would have made, but that's just something I couldn't do. Significant others aren't just there for your sake. They have needs and wants...they're human too.

I'm the one who broke up with her. In the end, my interest level was a lot lower than hers was. She wanted to spend every waking minute with me, and I couldn't handle it. But, after the breakup, it's like my mind can only focus on all the great things about her. All of the amazing...

@Robyn Will do, thanks man. By the way, she is in southern CA.....LA actually, but that's all you get to know :P