Recent content by VforVendetta

There's a lot of cool women out there, just depends on what you want out of life at that time. For me, i just won't act on it since i can see this sh*t going real bad in the forseeable future. Seeing your gf every day every class and possibly in the same dorm every day?? Na G screw that...

Definitely on boat with spinning other plates, no question about that. I strive for that always. I realized that i can't decide whether i want a damn girlfriend again or just keep spinning plates and **** around since i'm 20. I want both i guess... F*ck my life... Ever felt like that?

Its interesting that you say that because thinking about the whole thing today i have an idea coming to my mind about if the whole thing goes south - we aren't kids so we can agree to move apart while still respecting each other and not making each other's lives miserable for the following years...

Yeah i get where you're coming from with this. Don't get me wrong, i'm not at all for shutting down you emotions or ending up a chump for some girl, it's just a dilemma on whether this **** is worth it or not in the long run. I'm all for letting go into the moment and enjoying life as much as...

Hahaha i know right, f*cked up sh*t. It's just that college is just a huge f*cking social circle and when you find quality girls like this you go on impulse and attraction sparks and then you have to consciously make an effort to stop all of that natural chemistry and peel off of her just so you...

Hi guys, I'm in college (well it's a Faculty to be precise but who cares) and in a 90% women's one at that. I'm at year 2 and ever since i got here i established a strong man to woman natural flirty, push pull vibe with all the women i've met. And it works great, i love swimming in that vibe all...

Honestly i follow my feelings and my gut all the time, its just that this time i didnt think it was natural to not have the drive to pursue women. I didn't want my ego pulling me back into my little comfort zone and allow "i just dont feel it" to be my excuse. **** it, i'll just go with my own...

Yeeeah then i'm not doing something right... I don't just hold back i loose interest completely.

Don't get me wrong it doesn't feel wrong, i feel great actually and unburdened by this, it just surprises me that i don't have this drive to get the girl home, to close, to get into abundance. Clearly emotional abundance is there but since i am not having such great results with women lately...

As i said, it would help me get out of a place i'm stuck in. I'm in college, finishing up my first year, living in a big dorm. All's cool, i feel a craving for women so it's not that. But it's like, i approach, i put in the effort to get myself out there, i'm determined to drive it to the end...

Indeed i am. I realised that after a few days. This was just to change a few unresourceful behaviors and ways of thinking that had me tanking mindlessly and getting the same ****ty results over and over. Thanks for the help guys.

I actually forgot about this man, thanks for reminding me! I'll let it fly this time since studying for exams doesn't exactly leave room for doing other fun stuff a lot, but now i know what i'll be doing the second time we make plans, if it gets to there.

Got it. Those are actually pretty cool little guidelines to move along in the future. I've been lacking in that department so i'll go ahead and take your advice, try it out. I'm positive it'll be a nice change from all the basically copy paste scenarios i've been getting by sticking to my old...

She's busy, as i suspected, but she counter offered. Since i'm busy then i'll counter offer too so i'll let you know how the ''date'' went and what i learned.

So many quality replies here, wow, i was not expecting that honestly. I tried to set the date up again, short firm text and we'll see where it goes from here. I had a feeling that i needed to do that and now that i have i really don't care if it happens or not. It's like a burden has lifted...