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Just got back from a second date. Over the holiday weekend, she confirmed that she broke up with the guy. When we were chatting, I found out that she's really boring, so conversations wouldn't go anywhere. We just walked around for a while until I had to bail for work. I wasn't feeling a...

Solid advice. She randomly messaged me on Facebook this week. I responded after 2 days. I took that as high interest and now I have a second date for Saturday. We'll see how far it goes this time.

At least one approach per day, even with a busy lifestyle it's possible to achieve that. Helps develop confidence and social skills quickly.

Yes, it was Meetup.com for recent college grads. It helped break the ice by using this as a main topic and everyone was in the mood to meet/talk to strangers.

Many thanks for the reply, glad to see I'm doing it right. I've gotten plenty of rejections, so this is just another one to add to the pile. I know that I'm a catch. And I'll leave the 50 shades of grey parts out next time.

Well called for a second-date (if you can call it that), but she apparently got back with her ex, that sucks. Oh well, NEXT

I wanted to meet new people. It wasn't about picking up girls specifically. Turns out, it was a GREAT decision. My attitude was at its highest when I went there, which seemed to attract attention. I remembered to smile at everyone. Guys and girls, I asked what are they passionate and tried to...

This thought went in my mind as well, certainly not having a text from her confirms that theory. NEXT It was playful touching, mostly on the shoulder, hands and ankle when I saw her tattoo. Looking back she seems to have had low interest. Wearing low cut dresses that are clearly not meant for...

Just got back and I cannot believe how unlucky everything turned out. I brought a movie over but she was all dressed up like we had plans to paint the town red. Very suggestive so I thought it was green light. Conversation was smooth, though her eyes rarely met mine so I couldn't find ways to...

I'll keep that in mind next time. It's funny cause I did call her out and teased her on it in our conversation. Set up a 2nd date just for the hell of it and go an immediate response back. It's on.

Confused as to what I did wrong and might get some insight. To sum it up, there was a lot of LMR Initially we met on Tinder, then from there I asked for her number. She's older than me but I didn't care. I said drinks at 10pm, then at the last minute she wanted to change the venue so that it...

Got stood up as well and was an online meet. She's very apologetic about it with a creative excuse but at the same time said it "flew her mind", yet wants to meet again. This will be the first time I turn down a second chance since she obviously didn't care.

It's been a long while since I've been on the hunt so decided to just enjoy the night and try a club tonight. Right from the start met this very welcoming, albeit chubby HB6 who certainly had an interest in me. Since we were the first ones there, we had time to talk. She mentioned it was her way...

You haven't found the right person you care about. I'm the same way, it's just low interest.

Great job, keep us updated on how it goes.