Recent content by urbanwhite

You should start being 'busy' looking for other women.

There are a lot of classy black women who dress hip-hop. Anyway, don't limit yourself. Date whoever you want to regardless of WHAT she is.

I agree. Kayman79, I know what you are going through. I grew up in a predominately white town and went to predominately white schools. I speak so called 'proper' English and wear nothing but Polo shirts and Dockers. I still attract all kinds of women and you will too. Just be yourself.

Whining like a b***h about not being a pretator does't get girls. Women don't find that attractive.

WTF, do you want our advice or do you want to masturbate? I guess you'll have to learn the hard way.

You're putting way too much pressure on yourself. You expect too much from these women. Concentrate on being her 'friend' first rather than her 'boyfriend'. The hotty you're writting about is a person like you and me. Cold approaches don't work and they only make you appear desperate...

When was the last time you told a girl you couldn't meet her, because of exams or work? I'd say that you never have. If she was interested in you she would have never made any lame excuses. Don't believe the hype and NEXT her.

Doesn't seem like she's interested. Plus she's violent. NEXT her.

I agree.

McDonald's is a good way to make extra cash. I used to work at one through my last two years of high school. My advice with relating to co-workers is to be yourself. Let friendships happen naturally and don't force people to like you. Don't date any other employees unless either of you plan...

Good answer Sexy_Malibu.

I personally wouldn't waste my time with on-line dating. Most women are there just to play email tag and have their egos inflated. They're not interested in meeting anybody. You'll be better off meeting women in person. Hope this helps.

Great Post That was a great post. You seem pretty experienced to me. I wish I had your wisdom at 17.

But you began your relationship with her while she was married. She had more than just baggage. She had a husband and KIDS. If you want to find people to validate your screwed up actions then that's your business.

Just because a complete stranger (or someone you know) is polite to you doesn't mean she's interested. Don't make yourself sick reading, rereading, and re-rereading her gestures. Getting to know her is the only way you can be sure if she's interested or not.