Recent content by Ubermensch

Once again, biochemistry! I know I'm beating this 'til it's bloody, but if your biochemical situation is not sorted out, you have a hella difficult battle ahead. As es_mer8 points out, physical and mental activity *helps*. But when I was at my worst years ago, I always felt like sh1t...

I'm an equal opportunity skeptic I don't trust *anyone* until they *earn* my trust, unless I have nothing of significance to lose by trusting them.

Lasting longer One way to last longer is to pull out so pressure is only right on the tip. Another trick is to use the muscles that you use to stop p1ssing. The latter can bring about multiple orgasms, too. So, bring out the pics and practice so you'll be well trained for your next...

LOL! LOL @ diplomatic! I wear sharp vintage threads. A lot of gals compliment me on them. It's an instant icebreaker.

*touch* is tricky... Mukester's right. It can work greatly in your favor if used properly, or totally botch things up if you cross the line to "clinginess." It's all a a matter of reading her accurately. It's a skill that develops with experience. Touch is the most effective thing in my...

This one trumps all others 33. Attraction is not a choice, as David d'Angelo so accurately puts it. It's not an analytical process, so the analytical advice falls short of the mark.

You're *24*, goddammit! Sheeeiiit, if I only had this info when I was *24*! Read Cyrano & Unbridled's posts again. If a *40ish* man like me can go from someone who didn'y even get so much as a proper kiss in a 5 year period to someone who frequently beds hotties on the first date...

If you see her Just look her in the eye, and say "what's with the bogus phone number?", preferably in a not-too-angry-or-serious way. Think "caught you with your pants down." Don't worry if there are others around. It will only get you more respect ("don't fvck with Komodo") if you do it...

Yeah, it's hard It's hard when you make a mistake to just write the whole damn thing off and pull away, but that's what you gotta do. It's important to pull away quickly when things go sour. This ain't baseball: it's one strike and you're out in this game. Sometimes even one foul ball and...

The best thing I can think of ... is a smartass answer: "why, of course I live at home, do I look like a street person" or something like that. Of course, that won't work if their language is more correct, and they ask if you live with your parents. If you're in school, don't sweat it...

Chill, man I agree it was uncool for them to be sneaky about it, but smacking someone with a baseball bat could land you in *jail*, where you might end up being some 250 lb thug's booty call. Nexting them's enough.

I've found ... this one tends to go logically. It's not her difficulty in finding words that counts, but the *effort* she makes. The harder she *tries* to chat with you, the more interested she is, in general, just as one would expect.

I disagree with the standard advice ... I do not block caller ID, and I usually leave a message if she's not in. I've found the ones who are genuinely interested *will* call back, *unless* they live with parents, housemates, etc., in which case they might not even *get* the message. If I...

Another slogan ... "Read the Bible" Don't get me wrong, the DJ Bible is full of good tips, but it's so long and non-linear that "read the bible" is often impractical advice if one needs *specific*, targeted advice, or is just too damn close to a situation to see the forest for the trees...

Good points If a girl is into you, she will find a way to put herself in a position for you to ask her out. She will make it easier for you NOT harder. (Forget c0ckteases, rules girls, manipulators - I'm talking real girls). Thanks for the input, JJ. It would be cool to be able to read...