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No, Charlie is an AFC. A big AFC because he went out with his girlfriend, broke up with her because she was trying to change him, and then gets back together with her. She wanted to father the baby. They were then about to get married. As Player_Supreme would say, What the fawk?!? The show...

I'm very interested in seeing your progress. Drop us the link so we can read on your success. Every journey starts with a single footstep. -Chinese proverb (I think) the_next_big_thing

ah, westcoaster did bring up a point that I forgot to mention in my above post and a question for you. First off, for bridging the gap read the bible because it will give you an idea of what to say. Don't follow it like a mantra but it will give you ideas. How is your joking skills...

listen to westcoaster and Rollo. They are preaching the gospel. First off, I had zero social skills when I came here a couple years ago. Fine, I had few male friends and a couple female friends but overall I wasn't happy with what I got. Now, I got an amazing girlfriend. I did read...

agreed with Bourne. Since I was in your position once. I can relate. DO NOT put yourself in a position that you will do something bad especially with alcohol present. You don't want to have to do one of those "I fvcked up" speeches. I never had to neither did she. The_Next_Big_Thing

good going Diplomatic Lies this is what scares me when one my girlfriend goes to a party or anything. I tag along just to keep her safe. Thats the only way that I let her go because of past experiences with alcohol. Plus my current girl's family was a family of alcoholics. That scares me to...

Oh yeah, Westcoaster! HAHAHA those boards are terrible. I looked at them for quite a bit of time. A few good posters but very little substance on those boards. This board is where all the major posters came in. The advice is spot on and is the only board that I read anymore (long time...

Hey guys, I have been on hiatus for a bit but I'm back. Yeah, I remember back a couple years (about 11th or 12th grade of high school I was in a LDLTR for quite a bit of time) and I still remember my ex-girlfriend's sister, her mom, and myself driving down the area near Philly and I let...

I just realized that not to long ago. I was once an AFC and had this problem of getting clingy because of lack of options. Now I am in an LTR and I have options as well. I am much more ****y and funny now. When you know that you have options also. Oneitis almost or should vanish when you have...

I still open doors for women but I do it for men as well. Not because it is chivilary but because it is me. I don't follow a code of ethics but I do follow what I was raised on. Most of chivilary is in it. The_Next_Big_Thing

Mightymate you are a dumba$$ :) for your advice which is so filled with holes it is not even funny. Macavoy- as one poster said "I'm in a relationship but not dead" If you want to make female friends, then by all means go make female friends. Just make sure that is all they become is...

Low self-esteem women LSE women sabatogue themselves. This is what this woman did. She hit a road block and if she handled it well then she would have been worth going at another try (not desparation but persistence. Most people next to early in my opinion) but she was an idiot in how she...

this makes me happy that I rarely watch tv. The only tv that I do watch is the Grounded for Life, Simpsons, War at Home, and CMT Music. I just don't have time to watch tv much anymore. Seems like a blessing as well. The_Next_Big_Thing

Guess what!!! This board is not about finding a girlfriend as far as I am concerned. This board is about bettering yourself so you will have a successful life. Women are just part of that successful life. The AFC dynamic in this country is bad enough but how did rap become mixed up in this...

Re: So true HAHA, I got one to top that one westcoaster. I was listening to my radio on my way to see a girl on my country station (yeah I know it is AFC but I grew up on it and I enjoy it but anyways... ) and this McDonalds came on the air.