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    Why do I continue to torture myself?

    On the chance that you're being legitimate.... here's your solution: Your girlfriend doesn't like it when you see the ex to pick up the dog? Here's what you do --- You arrange to have your current girlfriend meet with the ex's current boyfriend to pick up and drop off the dog. You are secure...
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    Why do I continue to torture myself?

    My current gf and I live 90 miles apart.
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    Why do I continue to torture myself?

    Yes I believe there would be more issues down the road. An example was when my best friends wife asked me if she could come over to my house for 45minuted to kill time (with her own kids) as one of them was at a school play and it would have saved her having to all the way across town to come...
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    Why do I continue to torture myself?

    maybe I did overuse the term ‘’my ex’ just for simplicity sakes but I can assure anyone on here that I am secure and well over her. I would never go back and I’m glad it’s done. I’d be more than secure enough for my current girlfriend to pick up the dog my ex partners boyfriend sure. Do I think...
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    Why do I continue to torture myself?

    Broke up from LTR with ex 2 years ago but continued to share custody of a dog. Didn’t have it in me to give up on him after having him for 4 years. Fast forward 1 year later I’m with my new partner and have been for 9 months. She knew I shared custody but slowly over time she become b1tchy...
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    Think my girlfriend is losing attraction in me

    That's really interesting read right there so thanks for sharing that. You mention about going back to the basics and treating her like a woman you don't know that well yet others are saying back off and let her get in contact. I can't help but feel if I just pull off from contacting her it...
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    Think my girlfriend is losing attraction in me

    I think I have got lazy and complacement with her and not spending quality time with her actually doing things. We both lead busy lives over summer always doing things but it's slowly going downhill maybe I need to improve that. Like I said before she's sick of arguing as am I but one thing she...
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    Think my girlfriend is losing attraction in me

    We're both 24 and been together for 6/7 months and evertthngs great until recently we've started arguing a lot more mostly about silly unnecessary sh1t. Apart from that though everything's good. she came to mine tonight after we had a small fallout last. I got about loads of different things...
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    Ex going hot/cold. Going NC but still want her back

    I'm currently focussing on myself and keeping as busy as possible but she still pops in and out my life. I don't think she wants to lose me completely. I can't understand why she would tell me to move on but yet still try and talk to me and it's clear her feelings are unclear.
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    Ex going hot/cold. Going NC but still want her back

    We've been split up since beginning of March but she still comes and goes from my life. She split with me because towards the end I was immature and screwed up with some stuff. After 3 months apart we get meet together for a week and things were great but she couldn't trust I wanst going to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    We've been split up since beginning of March but she still comes and goes from my life. She split with me because towards the end I was immature and screwed up with some stuff. After 3 months apart we get meet together for a week and things were great but she couldn't trust I wanst going to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Anyone help a brother out with the above?
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Ceejay, But is she asking me to change? I mean in the beginning our relationship was brilliant for at least over a year it's when she wanted me to commit and get our house is where we fell short because I couldn't with all my college stuff going on. Once that happened she began flat...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    My ex split with me 3 months ago and when she dropped the news I was gone ans we never spoke since then until last week when it was her birthday and she tried to talk to me on a night and ended up arguing but I walked away from it all. I messaged her the Sunday saying she can't do that on a...
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    How to escalate with this girl

    Thanks for the advice. Been so long since I've flirted with women as I sort of is isolated myself from them whilst in a relationship I've sort of lost my game. I guess I just want to be in contact with her so that it keeps her thinking about me but what u mentioned before makes sense.
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