Recent content by teacha

Ignore her.

because you guys work together and she doesn’t want things to get awkward between you two. She’s letting you down gently and hoping you take the hint. My advice; stop thinking about this girl, she ain’t interested in you. Your time will be better spent elsewhere.

You need help dude. Professional medical help because I think there is something seriously wrong with you. Why can’t you leave her alone?

your first post screams emotional investment to me. I mean you have only been on 2 dates and it’s only been 2 days since she last made contact and you are already making a thread here seeking advice on how to proceed? Listen, she hasn’t responded to your text for a reason; she’s ‘busy’ with...

...and yet somehow she manages to find time for you? If she can make time for you, she can certainly do it for someone else. Let go of this idea that you are somehow special.

she probably pulled back because you are showing way too much interest. Pull back your interest and focus on other stuff you got going on right now. oh and she most likely is messing with other guys. Her words mean absolutely nothing.

I don’t necessarily see it as bad behaviour. It’s just human nature. A lot of people will pretend they were never really into someone after getting rejected or if they feel that certain someone doesn’t like them like that in return. it’s a way to protect their fragile ego.

Women usually do this: -to test whether you like her or not. -to stir up jealousy. -to hide her true feelings for you because for some reason she feels you don’t like her. -because they actually like the other guy. OP did you escalate? When a woman is openly flirting with you and you don’t...

and you believed that crap? she was obviously messing around with you for reasons only known to her. Maybe she’s trying to make you jealous? Maybe she’s trying to hide her true feelings for you? Maybe she was just teasing you? Who knows. Women do this stuff all the time. Don’t let it faze you.

Lol she knows what she’s doing. Either she just want attention from you or she could be testing the waters to see if you like her. My guess the latter. My advice; flow with whatever may happen. You only got one life to live. Stop limiting yourself with these “rules”.

An overwhelming majority of women will have sex on the first night if their sexual attraction for that person is high enough. If she’s making you wait, it basically means she has low interest and/or is playing games.

Subscribed. Interesting read.

I’m sure it is a legit excuse (sarcasm btw) Listen OP, I think you are coming off as too eager setting up other dates right after she’s blown you off. If I was you, I would probably have just told her “cool let me when you free” and leave it at that. Let her be the one to propose another date.

I wouldn’t do this if I was OP. She should be the one to reach out and set a date since she’s the one that flaked. Twice now btw. and no to making dinner either. She hasn’t done a damn thing to deserve that privilege. As a matter of fact, she should be the one offering to make dinner for...

I wouldn’t delete her number. Just treat her as “low priority” from now on meaning you don’t contact her. She has to be the first to reach out and make plans to meet.