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    30 and having issues!!!

    wow, I did the opposite, went from East to West and I'm finding the same thing. I don't have many friends here and I'm not sure how to go about finding more to be honest, it's getting pretty frustrating. It gets worse when I still talk to my friends back east and hearing about all the things...
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    How to balance the desire for sex and the desire for closeness?

    Hey Squirrels, unfortunately I'm experiencing the same thing as you. I'm in a new city far from home with a new job, so I tink that is playing a little on me too. I'm finding like you I can meet new women, I can go out with them, have them calling me, then it stops. Wierd, I haven't figured...
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    Slick Tales

    Hey Slick, good to see everything is going well for you! I haven't been here in a long long time either. My life has gone in a bit of a different direction, I gave up my job and home to pursue a childhood dream, it's been a long haul and now I'm living on the other side of the country doing...
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    Slick Tales

    Hey Slick It's good to hear that things are working out for you, it gives me some hope I guess. I think my situation is yours a few months ago, dating several women at once, having fun, but unfortunately none of them make me feel the way my ex did (over a year now). Still continuing to try...
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    dont forget to give

    exactly, it's what you want, it's what you make of it. I know guys who are living the life of your friend who love it and others who feel imprisoned. You need to decide what it is you want and put your best effort into it. Personally, I don't want a long term relationship at the moment, too...
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    dont forget to give

    Dude, I think you are on the right track, you are making the most of your situation and staying positive. I may have come across sounding a little harsh as I read my post, that wasn't my intent. You just have to be careful how you post these things, people see it as you preaching to them...
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    dont forget to give

    Life is what you make of it, if you have a positive outlook nomatter what, you will enjoy it alot more than the pessimist. Frizolous, I think you have great intentions, to be honest, I think your right. If a relationship is what you are looking for in life, then the only way to go is to...
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    simplifying all of this

    frivolous I understand what you are trying to say, and you may have been flamed a little excessively, but you have to understand that nomatter how much experience you think you have, your only 23 years old. I'm not trying to demean you, it's a fact. What you posted is nice and warm and...
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    time is runnin out

    I agree with newman, if you let her know how committed you are to the relationship by asking her to marry you, then maybe she will be more willing to take the risk of moving. Just casually asking her to move does not build up alot of confidence in the relationship.
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    Is your ex really that great?

    Dude, did she tell you this? That's a load of bs, she's obviously playing games with your head. You have to stop beating yourself up over this, if she legitimately cared about you she would understand your anger and would be able to move past it, provided of course you weren't abusive. I...
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    Is your ex really that great?

    I think it was Slick who once posted: "Don't think about past girlfriends and what could have been, you aren't together anymore for a reason, you've just forgotten what it was...."
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    Has it ever taken you guys over 6 months to get over a girl?

    Man, the timing of this thread amazes me. I ended a three and a half year relationship last Oct, a month before we were to be married. I still haven't really gotten over her, sure I've dated alot of women since, but not one even compares in my eyes, it's really wierd. Every time I meet a...
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    Slick Tales

    Hey Slick, it's been a while. I read about your latest exploits and unfortunately like everyone else I'm concerned. I've been in these types of situations before and to tell you the truth it never ends well. All I can say is that if your going to continue to see this chick then make damn...
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    Ricky: September 2005

    Awesome work Ricky, sounds like your having a blast!
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    I Need Advice Guys!

    Dude, I was in the same boat as you a couple of years, congratulations and good luck on the date, let us know how it goes.
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