Recent content by Spartan

This is very sound advice. The basics behind NLP is that you treat the brain as you would do a computer, that we as individuals have good and bad programs. From a DJ perspective an AFC suffers from a bit of bad programming, over analyzes, gets over emotional, goes sappy and chases a girl, all...

You can learn to dance and bump and grind with a hot woman or you can stand at the bar like a prat watching the dance floor wishing you was the guy dancing with the hot woman. I choose the first option. Dancing is a skill well worth having.

Good luck Madgame. Personally, if you want a bit of field practice make up a questionaire about something - dating for a dating company, sales, etc, you get the picture. Attach the questionairs to a clp board and go out meet people that way. It is just as hard as saying hello to a total...

She is with another guy. Can't personally see the point in going there. Up to you though mate. If she ends it, then make a move on her and if that happens don't ask her about it, she will bring it up in convesation if she watns to talk to you about it.

I have a friend who thinks to much, infact my ex wife used to do that as well. lol What struck me was the really heavy thinkers (which we can all be on occassion) can actually have an entire conversation played out in their mind complete with what I was expected to say! Aparently, all I...

Thankyou Frivolous. You are correct, it is worth aspiring to be a DJ, from what I understand of the concept it is about being a man in a time in history when the role is not so clearly defined, where we allow media and extreme feminism define how we should act as men in the same way women, for...

Don't worry about it mate. Seriously. Continue to be polite and just take it as a compliment. Most of the real freaks in this world run around in Star Trek and Star Wars gear anyway - those are the people to fear. Absolute nutters. j/k :D

Good post Sanz. I think a lot of folks here need to be reminded that happiness is something they should achieve for themselves regardless of the women they are chasing, dating or in a relationship with. You are more attractive when you are happy with your lot in life while still maintaining an...

Phone up your service provider and unblock your phone. There is no need to have your mobile number blocked. Absolutely no point to it especially if you are going to be dating. There is nothing more frustrating than knowing someone called but not knowing who it was or where the call originated...

I think our Jack here sum's it up very well. In my own experience, women in their 30's for the most part define themselves by their history with men and their baggage. It is very hard for them to accept we men are not all the same. It drives me nuts as well when I chat to them, for they...

Do not call her. If she wants to get in touch with you she will contact you. If she cannot speak she can text you. The ball is in her court, you done your bit.

Not using your finger electrical bolt zapper thing today?

He is a guy. There probably isn't much going on his head. It is our second most lethal weapon, women think we are thinking things, overanalyzing, etc but infact we are probably thinking about the football scores. Our first most lethal weapon is of course, walking away. Best to move on...

Junior Sanz, You are very correct in what you say about how the bad experience can set us on the right path. Thank you very much for your kind words Junior. It is greatly appreciated. This forum gives me inspiration. I am not a DJ, I am not an AFC but somewhere in between. I can learn...

Hi frivolousz21, The warning signs were when I first met her really. She was 26 and had been living in her own place for 6 or so years when we first got together, she was her dad's little princess. She was used to getting her own way, until she met me, that was great and the relationship...