A man shouldn't take disrespect from anyone. In an LTR, the key is to not get jealous over little things or needy... but at the same time, you can't take that to the extreme and let the girl walk all over you because you pretend to be indifferent. You give them an inch and they'll take you a...
I teach English in Japan... and there are a hell of a lot of cute high school girls. But I'd never bang any of them. Too immature and too sexually inexperienced. Not my idea of a fun time.
I prefer mid 20s-late 20s and I'm only 24. But there's something attractive about women that are more...
Move on. I smell oneitis and I think you're already friend zoned. She just picked him over you, what does that tell you about her interest in you? Also, if you were playing your cards right and were spinning your plates, this wouldn't even be a big deal.
IF she breaks up with him in a few...
End it. You already know that what you want and what she wants are different.
You also said she is prone to illnesses and the like, so give her the time (while she's still relatively healthy) to find someone who does want her.
That was weak man. Only weak men say "you'll never find someone better than me" crap. People with real confidence don't need to go out and hurt people like that. If you had real confidence, you'd realize that you can find someone better for yourself and that you don't need to waste your time...
So... what do you consider normal in a conversation with your girlfriend, and when do you think the warning signs should go up?
Also, I figure the best move would be to shift the conversation to other topics if your girlfriend starts talking about other guys.
Ditch her. Do you really want a someone who changes their mind on who they date so much?
How can she be hot for you one moment and then go back to her EX-boyfriend? It's not worth it. Find a girl with principles. She had you guys on the side and was toying with both of you.
And trust...
You know what you need to do with her. She's like the opposite of an attention *****... a social hermit, and if a girl is too far at either end of the spectrum, I don't consider her to be high quality.
I also try to avoid the net when it comes to getting to know girls now... your experience is...
Don't. Resist the temptation to spy on her and drop your ex completely. She's your ex for a reason and just keep her nexted.
Edit: I just read the rest of the thread. I wanted to keep banging my head but I've made the same kind of mistakes before.
For your own sanity, stay away from her...
All the time... not an interesting or rare girl really. It's why I won't start something on the net anymore. The girls tend to have social problems and huge self-esteem issues.
Dude move on. Any breakup is the end of a relationship in my book. If a girl breaks up with me, her loss. If she regrets it later, it's not my problem. I'll find someone who appreciates me so much that they don't even want to consider breaking up.
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