Recent content by sirBill

Update, we ****ed and life is good! She's a dancer and it was fantastic. So there you have it, a girl I've known for years, I was friends with her first, contacted her via Facebook message after falling out of touch, hung out over a period of 4 months or so, successfully avoided the friend...

this isn't universal. A lot of girls just date one guy, and don't have all this orbiting clutter. Just saying, generalizing isn't the best approach always.

Congratulations on your success dude! I'm sure you're as pumped as I am. I've had a thing for this girl for years now, we've just always had crummy timing and I've been locked in a LTR for the past little while. When everything goes right it feels great. She texted me this morning and...

Respect is really important to me here, and it's a two-way street. I believe in implied trust a lot. If I'm hanging out with a girl and she's on Facebook and some guy messages her, I'm not creeping over her shoulder trying to read the convo, or asking her about him. I don't care who she talks...

haha I've been most successful just not talking about the relationship with the girl. Religion is a non-issue these days for most people. Just smile as she says all this nonsense and go back to bed with her. Oh and man up, getting hurt is part of life. With greater highs comes lower lows...

Been on both sides of the fence with this one, been stolen from, and just recently stole. I guess I lucked out, the girl broke it off officially with her exbf before getting physical with me, and seriously resisted my advances up until that moment. Once she broke up with him though the walls...

Yes. Not in your hobbies as much as your passion for life. If you're ambitious as **** and hell-bent on accomplishing a lot in your life don't get a girl who's dream is to be a stay at home mom in the countryside. I just finally met a dream girl who's as smart as me (we got the same ACT...

Are you guys serious? Here's a hint for you all. Genetics dictates that there's ~1:1 ratio of guys to girls in the world. That number isn't changing. For every one of you dudes out there there is a girl. Facebook isn't changing this ratio, texting isn't changing this ratio, and technology...

Just gonna update this thread with a field report. A few days ago she left her boyfriend, mostly because of me. The whole thing was just quickly falling off a cliff, so she manned up (heh) and broke up with him, I think mostly out of respect. Being the awesome guy that I am, I decided to...

What they all said. Women are not the goal at this point in your life. Build mountains and empires right now. Try as hard as you can to do as much as you can while your brain still has some elasticity to it. Work as hard as you can and yes even play hard when the opportunity presents itself...

Well dude, I'm not advocating writing long, drawn out memoirs, that's not really a good idea, unless you're rich or famous, in which case it'll probably work. You just do what you do with the phone. Send the girl a darn message, something to the effect of "hey, do you want to get drinks this...

If people didn't like Facebook and texting and instant messaging they wouldn't be using it, but the fact remains that 3/4 of the US population has a Facebook, and the majority of those people log in every single day of their lives. You can't just sit here, plug your ears, and refuse this stuff...

Perhaps you're learning the wrong lessons. Girls are people just like you and I. Sure they can be manipulated but that's not what this is all about. The goal is to give you the skills to get past the pile of bull**** women put up against the world (for good reason, every smuck out there is...

Dude, Loneliness exists, it sucks. Don't exist in a vacuum, expose yourself more and don't be afraid to get hurt, else you're not really interacting with anyone. Get off that lava seat and go to the gym. Working out makes you feel like a champ, releases all kinds of endorphins and gets...

No problem dude! Best of luck. I think that if I had to pick a piece of knowledge to give back to this community it would be to not get too caught up in winning or losing, and to just have fun with it. If you make it your goal to go out and meet as many interesting people as possible, get to...