Recent content by Schadenfreudianslip

I think that the first step is a second opinion. Try another doc.

Make your main point first and be straightforward. Do not start off with ambiguous lead-ons or dodge the topic by saying things like, "We can still be friends." Do not offer to be friends or be there for her. Offering to be friends is a covert insult, as you would be getting what you want while...

DJ Damage said it well. More laconically, lesser women like AWs would be out of luck.

Thanks. I try. I used to take it on myself to be the "special friend and adviser" to these AFCs. A "special friend and adviser" is NOT friends with benefits. A "special friend and adviser" is female who acts as a host/shrink/emotional tampon to emotionally parasitic AFCs in order to try to teach...

LoneSilver, you owe me a new keyboard! Hehe, I could be the new 2 Girls 1 Cup. Actually, I've heard that there's some German porn that has already done stuff like that. AKAFLEX, I agree that modern social mediums such as Facebook pokes are tantamount to self-castration. Daygameguy, I agree...

I completely agree on the "let him off easy" way being harmful. That's why I don't even stay friends with the AFCs whose advances I reject. AFCs will take whatever they can get and worm their way into your life, often getting frustrated and lashing out because their actions aren't evoking the...

Yep, I'm a Dos Equis (2 X-chromosomes). It's okay, I was mistaken for a boy when I was 13 and had short hair. Yeah, I could have ignored him, but the problem with ignoring people is that some people are so dense that they have their own gravitational fields. This guy was contacting me via four...

A few months ago, my former lab partner contacted me very enthusiastically via Facebook, Myspace, and my school email all at once, saying that we'd have to hang out and catch up on good times. I only vaguely remembered him, but chatted a bit because we had concentric social circles. However, the...

An AFC once told me, word for word, "I'd be honored to be your emotional tampon. I can't think of anyone whose mirings I'd rather be saturated with." There are no words, only vomit. During our very short relationship, he got very hurt that I didn't need him or have extensive issues that...

I don't see this as societal gender change, I see this as abuse. Abuse is abuse is abuse. Abusers and enablers come in both genders. Doc holliday, run as if your heels were on fire and your a$$ was catching. Leopards don't change their spots. Run while you still can. See this as a clean break...

Uh, someone with low body weight is not obese. Obesity is excess fat. Dense, muscular guys are considered technically OVERWEIGHT, not obese. We are talking about obese guys, Mr. Tangent. At least you're aware that you're not the sharpest tool in the shed. Your other problem is your very loose...

This actually reminds me of a very good quote that I once heard at an inspirational speech: "If you do what you keep doing, then you're going to get what you keep getting." This is true with everything, especially obese men. Don't think that you are entitled to the same rewards as those who...

Actually, 500_WHOOP has done a very nice thing for us. He has demonstrated a very good example of the "You'd better accept me as I am" mentality that whiny fat AFCs have. He is living in La-La land with his BS rationalizations. He puts the fence in defense mechanism and thinks with his emotions...

Pot, kettle, black.

Also, watch out for drugs that affect birth control. St. John's Wort and antibiotics are well known for this.