Recent content by rezarect

Day 1 I'm starting over. I had to reach out for business purposes but the fact that I hesitated is why I'm starting anew. 5 months later and the thought of talking to her made me freeze. Why I cannot explain. I'm happy with how life is going. Managed to add a couple of unexpected plates to my...

It happens. All you can do is learn from it and move on. I've been tempted to contact my ex. Really struggled with it yesterday. However, I refuse to do so. You have to remember you are better than that. Unless you value yourself, no one else will. Don't get me wrong it's not easy. Nothing...

Aaq Isn't that the fun part? No only do you have to deal with them not being around those places and things you used to find joy in now have to be avoided to keep the pain down. But you have the right mindset. Keep pushing.

Day 28 I've been ruminating on my relationship the last couple of days. I guess it's the holidays.... First Christmas in two years I wasn't with J.... I'm not making contact tho. Why should I? If I was on her mind she would reach out. She hasn't, meaning I'm NOT. If I am those thoughts...

@dude99 thanks for the insight. I'm meeting with him later to pick up the gift he purchased for my daughter and I. I plan on letting him know I appreciate the concern but his daughter is happy where she is and so am I. If we reunite down the road cool. However for right now it's pointless to...

No. Do I still care? Of course. But I realize how much that relationship was holding me and her both back. I've accomplished more without her than I did with her. Going back would mean stopping myself from the growth I need. @stovepipe your assumption's aren't off base. I plan on addressing...

So my ex-fiance broke up with me and monkey branched to her co-worker around 5 months ago. We've been in no contact for almost 2 months. However, her dad who I was and am on good terms with still contacts and invites me to family outings. It's weird af to me. I respect him and don't want to be...

Day 17 Saw my ex at a mutual friend's party over the weekend. She initiated contact; I had no intention of even speaking tbh. I'm not bitter at this point... Just don't feel any interaction was worth it; not only that, I refused to validate her through acknowledgement. We spoke, then she went...

It's Day 6. Haven't heard from my ex and I'm happy about it. The peace has been refreshing. I'm looking forward to seeing what's on the horizon. **** what I lost. I'll check back next week.

I just finished a 2nd reading of "rational male" and I'm working through "48 laws of power" as we speak. I'll add it to my list.

This is my first official post. I discovered sosuave like most.. While trying to make sense of my breakup. My ex and i broke up in August. At the time it blindsided me but as i have moved away from it i totally understand why. I was raised in a beta home by women that taught me to always play...

Day 1 this is my first day of the challenge, although i have been in NC since November 7th. I was dumped by my ex-fiance in August. I got the usual "let's be friends. I don't see us having a future" etc. spill. Of course the real reasons were she no respected me as a man and was ****ing her...