Recent content by RealHawkeye

Good that you've drawn boundaries. Bad that she doesn't like them. If you really want to see where she's at, tell her that you're in an opening relationship now and you'll be reprioritizing your time (away from her) now. I suspect she'll come running back to you and never have any contact...

UPDATE -- Since I've pulled back, she's noticed it and her behavior is very different. She came by my office, really wants to talk, wants to know what's up and how I'm doing, invited me to a number of things with her, lots of affection, tell me she loves me, etc. No doubt pulling back 'works.'...

So you're saying no one puts 49-year-olds on pedestals, or a 49-year-old should never put someone on a pedestal?

She's not 49 -- in her 30's.

Before I got married, I used many seduction techniques with great success, minus the sex. (One of them even married me). It works getting a woman enamored with and exclusively committed to you whether the sex is there or not, so I don't gauge success on those grounds alone. The issue now is...

To everyone asking if we have slept together, the answer is no because we don't believe in that. We often attend church together. But short of that we have been romantic and physical, and go out lots where she is often the one buying. There, everyone happy?

Context. It figures into the dynamic.

She (and I) are in the entertainment biz. Networking and relationship building is part of it. But at some point the lines between business and personal can get blurred. Thing is, even if I ultimately cut off my personal relationship with her, I want to maintain a cordial business relationship...

Right. Her beauty + personality (very friendly, outgoing and positive) = she gets most anybody to do what she wants. Thanks for confirming my gut reaction. I think she's keeping her options open in that she's not being locked down. She came out of a bad relationship about the same time I...

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Here's the situation. Got divorced last year, after that started seeing a professional model that I'd known for a number of years. She and I had a working relationship when I was married, and while that has continued it has progressed to more than that. (She is not the reason for the...