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Recent content by odietamo

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    eye contact or lack there of

    Here in the south, I can make eye contact and do the "nod of acknowledgement" about 75% of the time. I really get wigged out when I go up North because people think you're a freak to do any of that.
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    Best friend is going threw hell

    This thread needs a JoeKerr post.
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    Best friends ex-wife

    I agree with Jophil. Forum has its share of "where did I go wrong" threads started by many a DJ who "blazed their own paths."
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    Slept with another girl right after I took a break from my GF

    I can tell you right now that no one here is going to advise you to make up with her, your ex. Things won't get any better if you get back with her. The world is full of women that have every positive attribute your ex had without all the negatives. You can and will do better than her.
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    for the women: what is wrong with a guy who works from home?

    I'm a self-employed guy, too. basically, women out of college generally want to know their man isn't a jobless, video-game playing loser. this has been confirmed to me by many women who made inquiries into what i did and upon learning confessed they were checking to make sure i wasn't...
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    Married and LTR fellas, how to bring up the subject of weight gain......

    I dated a girl for 3 year who was rail thin. one of those types who could eat a whole pizza and a box of oreos and never gain a pound (or throw it all back up.) So i thought i be able to get away with calling her "fattie" as a joke. Didn't work! :nono: Even skinny girls who couldn't...
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    first time sex question

    it's not immediate. but within 1-2 minutes you start looking hardness. within 2-3 minutes you're probably 1/2 size. by 5 minutes you're back to normal. at that point, it all depends on how into the chick you are, your physical conditioning, and what's going on in your head that determines...
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    Shes 28 Im 19!

    Puma Hunter!!!
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    Buyers Remorse

    your email started out really well, but you over did it by the end.
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    How it Happened...How Things Seemed to Change.

    nitpick: Material and Maternal are not from the same root words. Material: materia (latin) Maternal: mater (latin)
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    Finally broke up.

    Joe, when I read his breakup story I immediately knew what you would say, lol. DJVelvet: you need to listen to Joekerr. He has a PhD in lose-lose scenarios. And you were ball-deep in one, brother. WALK AWAY is the ONLY correct play here. Yes, that includes the cell-phone. Anything less...
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    The value of an intimacy close...

    as i get older i tend to appreciate much more the "bad things that were probably prevented" angle than the "good things that could have happened" side.
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    The value of an intimacy close...

    it's like that seinfeld bit about "day-life guy" and "night-life guy."
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    how important is money in a relationship to women?

    to my mind, assuming you don't have a golddigger on your hands as Kontroller points out, money is all about ensuring that "dissonance" does not crop up early on in your relationship. there was a infamous post from a well-respected member of the community who gave the deets of his date...
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    URGENT! Need experienced DJ advice [merged threads]

    KEEP RUNNING AND DON'T LOOK BACK. let her friends, family, and medical professionals help her. you are only in the position to either make it worse for her or yourself. don't talk to her or make any attempts to help her. you'll regret it. You did the right thing.
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