Recent content by obelisk

I have absolutely made these mistakes up until very recently as I worked through some trauma of my own. 100% what everyone said above. A little mystery is a good thing. Displaying vulnerability and trauma publicly is ultimately toxic to attraction and effects people's perceptions of you...

I came across this video yesterday that seemed very well done that made an attempt in 30 mins to discuss the data surrounding the actual abuse rates between men and women and the double standards that exist in the media and society regarding them. A very hush hush topic among feminists that is...

Go read The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. Short, easy but very useful.

The statistics are not a cope. You just want to be an apologist for women's behavior and believe the norm is a happy, healthy, sustainable marriage. The numbers paint the opposite picture to what you're saying. Go watch women's tik toks and dating advice to other women. It says the SAME thing...

I've used Tandem. Met some cool slavic chicks (and guys) I'm still pen pals with to this day. I could definitely see it being used for pick up in some way.

Divorce is not a joke. This is exponentially true if you have kids with the woman. In this current climate, one should have serious reasons to marry a woman. The potential downside risks are massive and simply seeing them listed in the posts above does NOT prepare you for the reality of just how...

^^ This! I started to get back into trying to get 10-12k steps in via slow/moderate speed walking (despite being an avid walker otherwise) and it has definitely helped. I also split it up into 2-3 sessions spread across my day.

I have been off and on with pure carnivore for 3+ years with plenty of experience with keto and paleo otherwise. Only within the past 4 months have I truly gotten to a place that have found what works for me and think I have line of sight on how to get to < 15% bf and recently hit weight...

FOR MOST PEOPLE, cheat days are absolute unmigitated disaster (myself included 100%). We do not handle them well and 99% of the time it turns from a cheat meal, into a cheat day into going off the wagon for days or weeks (or longer) as a result. In addition, you're sowing the seeds of your own...

So this basically makes Bumble just like all the other OLD apps. Great business plan.

With the rates of marriage and monogamous relationships continuing to decrease along with hook up culture, the rates of STIs is only going to continue to surge.

Crush your enemies, See them driven before you, and Hear the lamentation of their women. Amateur hour around here on a Friday. :cool:

Lack of education about emotional reactivity, what it is and how to combat it. It's not a skill set that is taught in education in any way. Most people have not spent any amount of time engaging in mindfulness practices to observe and understand their own thoughts, emotions and triggers. Social...

Power to him.

Why did you go through the phone of a woman who is "just a plate"? A lot of this seems self-inflicted by the OP.