Recent content by Nis786

Thank you guys for replying to this thread & giving me your perspectives. I moved on already because overthinking about this will not do any good.

Hi guys,I am from India. I am employed in government sector at top post. I broke up with my gf 1 year back & was not ready for marriage but then for my parents sake i agreed to meet the girl they selected for arrange marriage. So I went to meet her with families of both side,but luckily we got...

Thanks bro,Your replies in my thread & in this thread really helped me in getting a reality check. I Started doing NC with a hope that my best friend will realise & return. But now i am doing it for myself & my relationship with my fiancee. I know who should be my priority. I learned from my...

I am on Day 2 of NC. I told everything to my fiancee,bcoz i wanted to be completely honest with her. She always knew i had a best friend & she met her before once. But she didn't knew i like her & little possessive. Anyway She told me i acted as idiot. My friend used me bcoz i let her use me &...

*Update* I am on Day 2 of NC. I told everything to my fiancee,bcoz i wanted to be completely honest with her. She always knew i had a best friend & she met her before once. But she didn't knew i like her & little possessive. Anyway She told me i acted as idiot. My friend used me bcoz i let her...

Bro I cut of all ties with her & her family. Following NC,giving time to my relationship with my fiancee & removed my friend from facebook. but it always comes in my mind that she will not feel bad for a minute to lose our friendship just like that & will be busy chatting & meeting her other...

You are right! It will be tough to divert my mind. But i know I acted as emotional fool & every single decision i made during our friendship was from heart & not from mind. I compromised with my self respect,hoping she will understand me. But the way She & her sister put all blame on me (I...

Update Her sister messaged me several time,so i got annoyed & so i broke my NC & texted her & said you can say on your own if you are sorry. I was so pissed off that today i lost control & said i will tell your office staff & brother how selfish you are. ( i didn't meant to do that,i will...

Yes i cut off all contact with her. But she makes her elder sister text me & to give message that she reacted in anger because i don't give her space & interfere in her life. I went to her training to see her & She will chat whole night with others but not single reply to me few days before...

My life is messed up & I am to be blamed! Day 1- No contact. I will follow this for my own sanity. I recently had a big fight with my best friend. I met her when i had a break up with my ex-girlfriend couple of years back. She really helped me in coming out of that emotional thing. We...

I started doing that already. Hopefully for my own sanity, if she ever call back,i know she will,i don't return to her as lost puppy. It will be same cycle again because she believes she has upper hand & my own action is to be blamed for her such believe,i gave her the power. I will try to...

Thanks for reply. I agree with you that I am at the wrong end & messed up. I just feel extra protective towards her & like her as best friend only. I just feel that she never cared me about my happiness & She just used me for living her lifestyle. And, Yes you are right,my priority...

Hi, I recently had a big fight with my best friend. I met her when i had a break up with my ex-girlfriend couple of years back. She really helped me in coming out of that emotional thing. We became good friends really fast. At the beginning we both used to care for each other a lot. She used to...