Recent content by newstart

Just an update. She did ask me out via email. It was actually very clever. She asked without ever asking. I politely, yet firmly, rejected her; told her I could never date a coworker, etc. I stopped flirting and went into basic business mode around her. It worked for month...

I don't have the room(or money) for a good weight set. At the moment I'm not concerned with bulking up. I'm looking to drop about ten pounds and get more definition. I have done normal push-ups(in every way possible) for years. Doing push-ups flat-handed isn't very effective. Doing them on...

I just bought the Perfect Push-up at Walmart for $20. I didn't expect much, but I was actually surprised. They're much more effective than standard push-ups.

I hope you're right. Really, all of my other jobs were in male-dominated fields. I've never experienced any sort of drama or BS at work before. I've only heard about the horrible outcomes that happen. Thanks for all of the replies, everyone.

I hear ya. This is thin ice BS. Thanks.

They know I'm not seeing anyone at the moment. It's a small company. I never experienced real gossip before this.

Dude, don't go to club. Seriously. And, stay away from certain areas when you have a black woman under your arm. You will be seriously fvcked with and you'll get into fights. A close friend of mine, who was as liberal as they come, learned the hard way as he dated a few black chicks.

I'm in a pickle. I found out a few days ago a co-worker(and the daughter of my boss) has a serious thing for me. At the time I was flattered and a little uncomfortable. I suppose it's my own fault. I flirted with all of the women I work with(innocently). It was basically an exercise of wit...

Happy birthday, fellow June 15th'er. I hit 28 today.

You're better off without her. Take it from us that have made the mistake before. If you're like me, though, you'll only learn from experience. I hope she doesn't F up your head too much.

I've learned a good lesson. I'm better for the experience. I probably shouldn't have even responded to her, but I was pretty sure of her intentions from the first text so I replied because it kind of made me feel good. She felt bad, her branch broke, and she thought she could crawl back...

Hi guys. It has been a while since I posted, but I read here almost everyday. I have a bit of a long story. It's not really a question or a tip, just some stuff that most of us have been through. If you have any similar tales, please post them. I posted about my breakup back in January...

That post is a little hard to read because it's one giant sentence. Periods, man, periods! Seriously, though, she isn't worth it. No woman would leave you hanging for three months if she was interested. Don't ruin your life for her. If you feel you need to move somewhere then go to...

She's 31

She came over. I made it official. We're over. It's amazing. She still said she did nothing wrong. She said we were on a "break," so we were not a couple, even though we were "working" on our problems. She still tried to make me out to be the bad person for writing the nasty email. It's...