Recent content by Nelford

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    Do you swallow disrespect in certain situations?

    Never tolerate disrespect. Nip that Sh$t in the bud as soon as it happens. You dont have to resort to violence but let your nuts hang and tell that individual not to talk to you in that fashion. People get away with what you allow. Female and male will test you to see what type of animal you...
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    Black guys and direct game

    I'm a black guy and let me tell you white women hit on me way more then black women and I'm from the hood. I'm a street dude with a college education. I talk to all women the same and I mostly just engage in some sort of conversation with them about anything that comes to my mind. If they got...
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    Getting your life in order and dating....

    I lost my job and house and had to move back home with moms. It didn't stop me from dating. My money was very limited, but I still manage to date and have a good time. My bills where not going anywhere so why be depressed about it. I knew a lot about nutrition and fitness so I started helping...
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    Girl asking for a massage

    My ex use to always ask for mesages and it always led to sex, never failed. Get the exotic oil out and get busy homie...
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    Advice needed. WHat should i do next?

    Make sure you are not the only one investing into the relationship. If she wants to be your girlfriend she will give some type of hint. 5 months and no talk about "where is this going or what are we". LOL
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    You're a nice guy? It can be a good thing.

    I consider myself a niceguy. I just have a low tolerence level.
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    thoughts about going out alone

    Ive gone out alone plenty of times and had a great time. I even travel alone a few times. This is partly the reason why I don't really care to be in a relationship. The more you don't care about these things it seem the more tail you get.
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    "I'm seeing other guys, just wanted to be honest"

    I wouldn't care because I would be doing the same thing. I always think girls are seeing other dudes anyway plus whats the other dude have to do with me. She is chilling with me at the moment.
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    A question for guys 28-32 or older

    This thread is awesome. I think about this very subject(s) everyday. Keep it rolling fellas.
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    Paying for drinks/dates

    I don't spend too much for dates. Really, I'm not there to feed her, I'm there to get to know her and see if we are a match. If I do decide to get something to eat I try to keep the tab somewhere between $25-$50. It's more close to that $25 then that $50. I rather go to a place where I spend the...
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    Have you ever been so angry...

    I worked with female bosses in the past and always had problems. I guest it's just being boss around by a woman that got to me. I personal train at a gym and had to give up the job because of the supervisor. Everytime she was in a bad mood she would start bossing around the trainers to pick up...
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    Cute face, great personality, but...

    As much as I would like to play the distant role and try to sugercoat it, I usually man-up and tell the girl straight up I'm not interested. I been there before and the girl cried right in front of me like she was a 3rd grader. I said it the best way I could. The girl call me back a month...
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    Situation with GF - does she have a valid point?

    I would stop with the text message. It may come back and bite you. If you have to talk to her, do it in person... just my 2 cents
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    Recession hits the gold diggers hard...

    No homie, they get by the AFC's not the champs in this game. $650!!! Why?
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    Dropped Plate over a Tipping issue

    Dude you deceived her. Tell the truth next time bro. If a girl ask you if you are dating tell her yes and change the subject. I use to do the same thing you did when I was young and it never work out for me. I use to think if I told them I was seeing more than one girl they wouldn't go for it...
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