Recent content by Mxrider01

They broke up the month before her and I started talking. So its relatively new and she is playing nice because he is lonely and confused. I kept the story short... I told her she needs to to tell him flat out because we have nothing to hide. Just don't give him my name, which he does...

Short version..started seeing a girl recently and its been about 2 months. Her recent ex boyfriend has out of nowhere started texting her and seeing if she wants to hang out, she has told him that she "seeing someone" and cant do that. So naturally he starts asking questions about who is "he"...

I opted to listen to the wisdom and advice of people more experienced than I. I have nailed it down today with another guy friend of mine to go Saturday. I'm not gonna lie, part of me does want to take her. I WAS really looking forward to it with her. But i know now that it will be...

Yeah I do agree with jophil28 jamo. I have already asked around and gotten 2 yes’s to go with me Saturday. So I know that I have options since I am very much leaning on NOT taking her. I have already been putting myself out there to meet and talk to other women. I am working on improving...

That's golden! Haha so true.... They should have guidelines and rules for those girls on how to make a profile that actually works. Most profiles i have read online are all about the same; a laundry list of somewhat unreasonable demands that only the bachelor on TV could fulfill. Although...

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backbreaker; like i said she is very good at what she does and totally played me with enough contact and sweet messages, dirty texts and so on. She has strung me out and kept me interested probably just to ensure she gets to go with me Saturday! She is smart, and talented with stringing...

Thanks Nkognito...I have revamped my facebook to better suit my privacy. Jophil; She is good at what she does!! She has given me just enough attention to keep me on the hook and keep me in orbit with dirty texts and short convos. Wow!...i feel a little used and blind. That's why I'm...

To be honest I was hoping to get laid after we went out....but i guess i really don't know for sure if she'll go through with it... We have had the plans for weeks...and i understand the "orbiter" thing. We haven't actually confirmed the plans yet,but she has verified them with me when we...

Ya know I did put her on a pedestal. I was enjoying her so much and having a good time that i let my AFC tendencies creep in and poison things. I agree that I was just and episode in her wacky relationship cycle. I think I saw her as a challenge to be tackled and not for the red flags...

The Searcher, fling-o-matic, wanderer, or whatever you want to call her, is what brings me back here to study and become better. Here’s the story…met an amazing girl through a friend of mine and we immediately hit it off. Laughing and drinking and dating, the usual good time when you find...

Niice..great example man! thanks. For me the real world examples are the ones that sink in the farthest...

I was the same person in high school. The Nerdy stay in type who didn't have many friends and no real social circle to speak of. I had a lot of trouble making friends and keeping them because of my lower status. Now that I think back on it, it was 13 years ago! I have grown so much and...

agreed.....women need that security net. Drop em' like its hot

All women, no matter how good you think they are, have the capability of destroying your heart if you hand it to them. Do Not Underestimate any any single one.