Recent content by Miroku

Well said.

It could be possible. You can try testing it by going out of your way to befriend the male population of your future offices, and when and if you succeed, start teasing them that they were jealous of you. You should be able to tell a lot by looking at their body language when you talk to them...

Omizzi: I'd avoid or distance yourself from her for a sizeable amount of time. Or at least limit your usual interactions with her for a period. Then when you structure a moment to be with her start the kino, flirting, and imply with everything you got from the get go that for some reason you're...

In an effort to make this more applicable (i.e., not theory) contribute something to my little list and let's see if we come across any bright ideas here. Keep your signature moves secret though ;). Stupid fun ones are more than welcome too, which are my specialty. A lot of this I probably got...

Given the fact that (1) you acknowledge it's a problem, (2) it affects your daily life, and (3) you don't feel you can control it totally, consider seeking help from a professional. There are people who will think going to a therapist automatically makes a person crazy, but personally I think...

We can't really control others or the things they say. What you can control is your reactions to it; if you consider it beneath you or wrong, why respond in a similar fashion? It's not like proving him wrong or insulting him will do anything other than make you mad for no reason (especially on...

Thanks Omizzi. But in my opinion the best advice here was the most practical yet subtly leading. Sometimes what we don't like to hear is exactly what we need to hear, and backbreaker did just that; he deserves a lot more thanks than me since he gave a lot of good advice (and examples and perks...

Hey Omizzi, I think I know you. Anyway as others have mentioned, 9s and such typically have a lot of guys waiting on them, and being in college especially I have doubts that they'll be forever stuck to any guy for that long. Unless of course they're in love, she's a really loyal person, or in...

Bootlegger is totally correct; I do and think exactly as his post specifies. I'd like to add that when you ask questions, take care to make them open ended (i.e. who, what, when, where, and why) as it'll force anyone to respond with more than a 'yes' or 'no'. The more you get out of them, the...

Never thought of a guy's attractiveness affecting the C&F game... say I recently pissed off a girl by being too C&F when she was already into me. I see her again in three days for an exam. What's the best way to recover from that? Sure I could move on, but what could be done if attractive guys...

Depending on the class size, you might feel that it's difficult or impossible to start chatting away. If it's small it's best to start with an open question to everyone, and start asking the people who respond further questions from there. Do that enough days before and after class, and...

Well... I would first look at what your peers are wearing and casually compliment their attire and ask who the designer was, or just hit Banana Republic (or any other store like Hugo Boss, Kenneth Cole, or Armani) and have them tailor a suit for you. Anything that fits well is usually...

I need advice on how to proceed here... I'm currently in a setting with a girl that I'm fairly sure has some level of interest in me. We're both on a job that'll continue on for about 3 more weeks, so I'm trying to figure out how I should tailor my approach. The reasons why I think she's...

It's amazing to see what one tip sparked. Powerful and for me anyway, very enlightening thread. Thank you for your time, effort, and figurative slap upside the head Pook. I for one walked away with something good from reading this thread. It'd be nice if posts from simply successful people...

Thanks for the support guys! The replies I got from askmen.com were downright brutal. They basically said I blew it and that she'd probably say no at this point (not to mention calling me a loser/punk/idiot)... which is worrying me, could they be right? I basically blew her off when the...