Recent content by Miles28

Alright, thanks lads. I feel slightly better now. Honestly when she told me I just felt ghastly, like i'm this horrible person who has wrecked two people's lives. At least I know that a jury of my peers (on SoSuave) wouldn't quite give me the death penalty for this. I still feel bad and...

Thanks Des, I think I needed to hear that. Well I was thinking along the lines of, if I hadn't come along they would have just had a great relationship. The truth is though she had split up with him a couple of times before (and slept with someone else during that time) and I think that if I...

Where do you draw the line though? Why not have everything peer reviewed before it's published on here. The quality would be higher of course but then the site would become more of a 'guide' than a forum. I think as long as people aren't deliberately trolling or trying to sell timeshares, etc...

Hmm interesting. But you're some super good looking guy?

iwanttofight thanks man. it's certainly a different perspective. you could be right, certainly you can't call any relationship where the woman is willing to cheat on her live in boyfriend for a year 'healthy'. I just don't like being the catalyst for this break up. And this girl hates me...

It's a forum. People should be able to express opinions, garbage or not. This is by no means the only negative/depressed post on here.

It is hard to get laid with a decent looking chick. Hard that we consider it a decent achievement when it happens. Not so hard that it's not worth attempting. In mountain climbing terms getting laid is probably like climbing Mt Fuji. The OP makes it sound like its like climbing K2.

I got involved with a girl who was living with her bf at the time. My impression was that their relationship was coming to an end. It didn't for a long time and all the while we were seeing each other, sleeping together. I really liked this girl a lot and wanted to be with her. However after...

Elmer, Jesus, reading that post was scary. It described everything that happened with my BPD Colombian ex. Insightful stuff.

I think your behaviour is actually fine. It's better than hanging around her like some sick puppy looking for crumbs. The only problem is that it's hurting you. That's the part you need to deal with. Some might say by cutting the girl out of your life you're losing the chance to hook up...

Understood that you want to have one last crack but what can you do? I realise that's the question you're asking but it seems tough to reignite interest once it's gone.

Thanks to DonJuanito too. Ok am going to go out and report back tomorrow. It could be terrible, it could be great. One thing's for sure though - if I stay in, it's just gonna be 'not bad'.

Ha, ha thanks Tim. Ok am going to try and get my sorry ass out of the flat. Maybe a power nap first.

So it's Friday night here in Japan. As always the friends I do have are planning nights in with their other halves. I can either stay in or head out sarging solo. Need some motivation so come on guys, tell me to get out there!

Totally agree with that - re control. Have many friends married to Japanese women and they are so under the thumb it's incredible. Women are women. The whole sweet and subservient thing is an act. Then it's bait and switch time.