Recent content by michelangelo

...you cannot expect her to change her mind over night, no matter how many times you call her, no matter what you do for her. In fact doing this has the opposite of the desired effect, because, as you also put so eloquently... women lose psychological attraction for guys the same way guys...

And I forgot to mention - this could be applied to married chicks as well. In other words, I know I am not getting anywhere with Mrs. Hot, but she may have friends I can work on, and she gives me some social proof if I am around her occasionally.

You don't, as far as I can tell. I figure use warm for those who look, and cold for those who don't.

Couldn't have said it better myself. To me these are exactly the advantages of this. I don't come across quite so heavy as a "pickup artist" and I also don't waste time with the ones who won't give me a second glance. I think that this better suits my personality. Of course, I am trying...

In my brief time on this forum, and reading the DJB, I have seen two divergent opinions on approaching women, which I will refer to as "cold" and "warm". Cold, in a nutshell : 1. See HB 2. Approach immediately 3. Chat briefly, blah, blah,blah, etc 4. "Gimme your number" 5. If yes...

That last one was more along my idea of a good response.... It seems some of you guys prefer the all out ego assault. Does that *really* make a girl more interested, or are you just trying to be a total d*ck? Get the f*ck outta here! Paint my house, b*tch! Suck my c*ck! etc, etc...

Now, *THAT* was a reply.... :) Thanks for your advice. I guess for those still reading this thread, I have not made my original "question" very clear, so here goes another try: What I am getting at is this - I have been approaching girls. Some have some level of interest, some...

OK, I got it. That was a reply to the girl, not to me. I was like "pony?!? castle?!? what the...."

Well, that last post was not very helpful. Why have I OBVIOUSLY not absorbed these things? Because I was rejected? Seems to me that is to be expected. It's a numbers game, and all that. I don't think there is anyone here who is getting groped after 15 sec. by every girl they...

Pardon my ignorance...but.... What the f*ck does that mean?!?!? I have absolutely no idea what you are talking about....

A question for the sages: Do you guys think there is any utility, for a newly-attempting-to-be-reformed AFC like me, in approaching girls who you can tell are not really very interested, just as "practice"? For example, if I meet some chick and within 15 sec. she turns away from me and...

Is this the forum about Brad Pitt's sexy body? OOOOh, good!! Not Really. Gosh, I must be in the wrong room, I thought it was about DJ. Ha Ha!

Thanks to mindovermatter for pointing out the old thread. I read through that, as well of these replies. Although I embrace the concept of not suppplicating, and being C+F, some of the "suggestions" people made were a bit too much it seems to me. C+F does not necessarily mean being a...

I'm no expert here, but.... WAKE THE F*CK UP!!!! NEXT!!!! If this is not a textbook "NEXT" I can't imagine what would be.

Every time I go out, some chick says to me "buy me a drink." It's like clockwork. These are usually girls who I have approached and gotten their names, maybe exchanged a few words, but not really spent any time with. The old me would have said "sure I'll buy you a drink" and forked it...