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Recent content by LoveAfter2009

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    No car and trying to get a girl with a car insight?

    Parking is generally easy to find (granted, hardest in Manhattan) but outside of Midtown it is still relatively easy. The day of the week, time, and distance to your venues do play a big role however obviously. Trying to get free parking around Columbus Circle in Midtown for example, is a...
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    No car and trying to get a girl with a car insight?

    Just go out using the MTA. You don't need a car. If she does bring it, you can either chill in the passenger seat like a boss; or tell her you want to drive because she's a woman (i.e. in a playful teasing way).
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Now this post made smile :) And not only because you said we deserve each other (or as others say are made for each other) and that all this seems to perfect, but because you aren't the first one too say that. I have many times tried to find a flaw in this myself but am always left scratching my...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    If you judged me by my original posts, that only makes you look worse my friend. The original posts were nothing facts and introductions. How can you hate me for saying I love how my life is? Or judge me for the countless times running into her? I was not responsible for those, they were all by...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Thanks for the well wishing :) I don't want to argue with anyone here, but if they keep making up things which might make people not take seriously when they otherwise would have taken it seriously, then I have to counter such negative claims. I understand where some of them are trying to...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Of course. Whether I meet her at our Baskin Robbins, college, or the moon, I am getting her number and letting her know we're going to do something soon. I'm most likely going to take her out to a skiing resort, theme park or ice skating. Or more simply, you need to stop focusing so negatively...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Lmao, you have your head up your ass so far deep trying to redeem yourself that you lost any reading comprehension skills you had. OF course I fkin planned the approach. I made the DECISION to approach her. I set it down in my head "Today I am going to approach her". But I never planned WHAT...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Nah, I only respond in detail to detailed posts is because, in respect, for a lack of a better. If someone can take the time to write a decently long post for me, I can take the time to respond in a similar manner (unless the post is all hate). Likewise in person, I can debate with people as...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    EDIT: "That stare was too long and meaningful", not "not meaningful". Lol, do you people have some sort of troll phobia? Why is everyone considered a troll here, when I personally frequent these forums and have never really seen much trolling except from some people like thelonewolf etc. You...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Really, who cares if you rarely post negatively? No one gives a damn if you are one of the most positive bible thumping door-to-door missionaries who has never said a negative word in his life. The fact is, your post full of negativity. And it showed from the get go. 95% of the guys? So now...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Yeah, like I said, I originally wanted to kick myself for not getting her number but as I thought of it later I am content that I didn't. The approach worked better as a way to break ice, and now that we talked, I can get her number anytime (as in, the next time I see her). So no loss. And yeah...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    So giving descriptions about me so you fellas have a better understanding of me is bragging now? The only reason I even bothered saying I have an athletic body and a great job etc, is so no one can tell me "workout dude keep urself busy, or get a job". I wanted to dispel any of those responses...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    I love your posts bro, it's like you can read my mind. On one hand, I wanted to hit myself for not asking or doing kino on her. But on the other hand, I thought to myself that I did the right thing. Why? Because for one, like you said (my mind basically), we ran into each other on a regular...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    I have met so many girls I didn't contact and saw them many times too; I don't give a bats **** about them. It's only THIS WOMAN. Met in 2005 and until 2009 I didn't even remember she existed. Since 2009, she has been on my mind and since then we have run into each other over and over and...
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    I am going to approach her. Five year love / oneitis. I. NEED. HELP.

    Lol I totally know where you are coming from. but here is the thing, I WILL 100% SEE here again no matter what or where. If you read the whole thing youll know we run into each other at least TWO times a month, sometimes once a week and sometimes twice a weeeek. the Monday is a 95% chance...
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