Recent content by Leoppard

It's almost comical actually to read this post 4 years on and realise just how clueless I was. The kissing thing turned out to be the least significant of the red flags, much smaller seeing things were the real warning of the mindset being hidden under the mask, which waited a full 2 years...

I started this thread over 4 years ago, and remember it vividly. The advice was good, however I did not take it. Yes I am an idiot, I accept that. How I wish I had simply blocked her in 2016 and moved on. But I didn't, and I paid the price, I have only myself to blame. I was arrogant, everything...

The more I read, the more I wonder if this was a BPD encounter. Never have I had anyone so into me..love bombing? Im the person shes wanted to meet all her life. I satisfy every need. Yet shed give it up rather than stop kissing other girls lol. Heavy drinker and party girl..uses drugs...

Thanks all, hate to let a good thing go but have to accept i cant control my feelings here sadly, she makes me feel too good. Sucks

B_b, you are my favourite poster, thanks for joining in. What would have been your response here out of interest?

Thanks, but I already admitted having screwed this one up and advice certainly is being taken objectively. She already said I can have sex with other women, and I am spinning plates. I was of the mind that she needed nexting and was looking for confirmation. I was also curious how a master DJ...

Thanks. Can you give an example of how I could have "won" this conversation?

Thank you. My logical brain says, well does it really matter if she drunkenly kisses someone sometimes. She's just a plate after all. Etc. But I need to hear that yes it does, and it's not about that. Good useful replies, thanks.

So Ive been doing well the last few months thanks to all the fantastic advice on here which really works, spinning plates, genuinely not giving a fvck, doing everything right and having a great time. However, the fact I'm posting a thread means ive probably already lost with the girl I'm about...