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  1. lamath

    Advice needed

    Thank You for all the kind words, im already doing much better.
  2. lamath

    Sociopathy

    Most sociopath dont even have the foresight to ask themselves if they are sociopath. So your probably not one.
  3. lamath

    Advice needed

    Thanks I know very well its my ego, ive reflected many time in the past about how i would feel about this, was sure i could handle it. I think there is also the fact that thats almost 2 year seperated made me forget how bad it was.....
  4. lamath

    Advice needed

    Thank you man, today was better tbh so we will see how things goes.
  5. lamath

    Advice needed

    Not sure man, i dont think i m afraid of them having an other dad, maybe i had her as a back up in some way in my mind or jealousy,,,, I made her feel very bad when i found someone else , so i guess i had this coming timing made it much worst too.
  6. lamath

    Advice needed

    This is not something i had to deal with before, but ive been feeling like crap this last week. I need some advice....im sure i would know what to tell someone if this happened to them but detachment is very hard right now. I need perspective. So i dumped the women ive been seeing for over...
  7. lamath

    4 months into the breakup, I managed to re-establish contact with my ex and got her to agree to sit in a "therapy" session with me

    Yes i dont miss her much but i wonder if that extra responsability was just in my head.
  8. lamath

    4 months into the breakup, I managed to re-establish contact with my ex and got her to agree to sit in a "therapy" session with me

    Quite good, but she was a bit to clingy i felt a bit suffocated, this is probably why i lost attraction. I still think it was for the best, but no obvious reason for dumping, she just felt like one more responsibility.
  9. lamath

    4 months into the breakup, I managed to re-establish contact with my ex and got her to agree to sit in a "therapy" session with me

    Just had to let go of a great women for something similar after about 6month. I knew that on the long run she was not for me, i did stay with her a bit too long because i knew she had great qualities. The more we kept going the more i made her insecure with my aloofness. I was not good to her...
  10. lamath

    For the Men on here with kids? How do you deal with the mother?

    I think you will have to use the court. I did the same with my ex, need a regular schedule so that there is also less conflict and misunderstanding. I know how this is, having a clear cut gadianship plan is best.
  11. lamath

    For the Men on here with kids? How do you deal with the mother?

    You are doing everything a boyfriend do without getting the lay. You give her security and confort, its not your job your scale back do thing with your kids and for your kids not her. The only support and attention she deserve from you is in regards to your kid, dont ask her to movie or golf...
  12. lamath

    4 months into the breakup, I managed to re-establish contact with my ex and got her to agree to sit in a "therapy" session with me

    No contact is not for getting women back its for moving on its good for both parties. Its for accepting that a break up is final. Not accepting that a break up might be final is when you get into neediness territory. Once some type of outcome indifference is reach maybe you can
  13. lamath

    Stood up

    Very good idea
  14. lamath

    How do you test women?

    Pretend to have forgotten your wallet when going for lunch
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