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Recent content by johnca2010

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    girls that are too busy, worth it?

    Lol you sound like a girl right now. In fact, you sound like many of the girls I'm dating right now. You need to reverse this. The way to make them want to see you more is to restrict the amount of time so much that you see them that they nearly beg you to hang out with them even for an hour or...
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    Not good with the whole when to call after a first date

    In my experience, it is best to wait one day before calling her. By doing this, you don't run the risk of appearing needy, and you don't run the risk of the girl thinking you're a player by waiting too long (believe it or not, this can backfire sometimes). And yes, the point is to set up a...
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    Not good with the whole when to call after a first date

    In my experience, it is best to wait one day before calling her. By doing this, you don't run the risk of appearing needy, and you don't run the risk of the girl thinking you're a player by waiting too long (believe it or not, this can backfire sometimes). And yes, the point is to set up a...
  4. J

    Women & Texting Is Out Of Control

    If they're texting when you feel they should be giving you their attention, simply tell them that you'd like them to re-direct their focus. Or do what I do and tease them about it, catching them slightly off-guard and indirectly telling them that they need to stop texting. Works like a charm...
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    Question about your concept of IL

    Some women might have barriers that are preventing her from expressing IL to you, so it could be possible that you are misreading her when you think she has low IL. Also, don't let your own personal insecurities cloud your vision. The quickest way to test IL is a little KINO. I don't waste...
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    When a wingmen brings you down....

    If this continues to happen with your wing, then you need to get a new one or go out alone. It can take a lot of energy to work on your game (which is why so few guys have it), and if he is not interested in improving and being open to honest criticism, then don't wing with him anymore. The...
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    Various Tips from Extensive Field Work

    Over the past few months, I've been out in the field, making tons of approaches and closing with a lot of women (ie sex). I've been closing 3 or 4 times per month, within the first or second date. I've developed some tips and no-bull**** rules from the field: *Be neutral. Be in control at...
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    Becoming a quick thinker

    start going to local comedy clubs and watch live standup. also just spend more time in social situations and groups that are different than your norm.
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    My roommate looks like JFK Jr. - MAJOR PROBLEM IN THE FIELD

    Focus on the development of your charisma, approaches, charm, etc.
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    FWB with boyfriend feels guilty after cheating with me

    Get out of this situation ASAP. You will fall into the quicksand of this drama and eventually it will drag you down. The fact that you are worried about her guilt, dealing with time-wasting texts, etc. shows me that you are already spending too much time/energy with this person. The sad fact is...
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    My LTR of 1.5 years left the bar with another guy...

    The face of the matter is you need to be more aggressive about this. Within a minute of seeing this guy talking up with your gf, you should have been over there and let it be known who you are and blatantly say that if you want to keep on talking with this dude, you're out. Should have taken...
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    My LTR of 1.5 years left the bar with another guy...

    The fact of the matter is you need to be more aggressive about this. Within a minute of seeing this guy talking up with your gf, you should have been over there and let it be known who you are and blatantly say that if you want to keep on talking with this dude, you're out. Should have taken...
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    Dating is for Losers

    LOL holy sh*t this is great. Man I gota try this. I'm a big advocate of CHEAP dates (I always go to my local dive OR get some coupons off of LivingSocial for hella cheap dates) but there's no games with you! Good job.
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    Ever hit your woman?

    I don't think it's morally wrong (basically agree with Sean Connery) but the legal system is so skewed towards working for women that it's not worth it! Just get out of the situation and get with some other broad. If you really do have anger problems, however, then that's a completely...
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    Am I a pervert?

    Lol wtf, I'm sure there are some people who might call you a "pervert" but who the hell cares ?! I don't particularly care for all that sh*t you mentioned ("married with children"...LOL) but if that's what you like, go out and get it! You'll be surprised at how women will adapt for YOU when...
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