Recent content by john1234

Yup, that is right. I'd say , when you stop trusting her completely, it's time to dump her. If she is heading to ****tail bars to drink with friends, thats a big red flag! It would remove trust. She is not GF material. Start spinning plates ASAP.

How do you handle arguments that happen for no obvious reason?

She has made an apology about it but also claiming neglect? I have not been with other women so dunno what she is on about.

Ha ha, I do understand that women are what they are and cannot change, because I have known them to be attention-seeking, inconsistent, emotional, manipulative . Mind wasn't fully made up because I was reading and learning.

Please explain more? She really doesn't get me and I thought I understood her but clearly I'm working that out with all the help I can get.

Thanks, You are correct here. I'll bring that up properly. It would have been a Yes but after this incident ...

I'm in 30s and she is in 20s. But like you said I do value my alone time, doesn't matter if she is a 10 out of 10. Miserable feelings is a red flag for me too, mental health is definitely important.

I think these young girls these days are all somewhat gold diggers and think they are entitled to a man spending money on outings for them. She has bought me stuff and paid one outing bill for us and on a hand full of occasions paid for small less than $20 things. I have paid and provided more...

This week was hell with her, it's never been like this before. I felt like I could not breathe. She nullified almost everything and made things awkward and uncomfortable. Because of all this I reached out to an old plate and she has been responding, not expecting anything more than fun, but...

Now,I do try to avoid this! On my road to become a better man. I say once it's over, it's over, I try to stick to this as best as I can.

She played the victim perfectly, and was crying about it like I did something bad to her. She is pushy about living together, feel pressured with that. There are things I'd want her to do, I don't go guilt tripping, manipulating and pressuring her about it. I talk about it like an adult.

This sounds good, I'm willing to heed this advice. I'm not looking to just jumpship yet because we had good and genuine feelings. I'll try these, but I would be exhausted with her and feel that she is unappreciative and delusional with her meltdown. Maybe the relationship has run its course...

Yer thanks, after a short night of sleep. It still makes no real sense. Been a really bad weekend for my standards, would have been a much better weekend alone!

How do you find out what rating you are as a man?

I can't tell her that I want to take a break, it will not go down well.