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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    So wise. You predicted this spot on. She did update her WhatsApp story. I did not click into it but the thumbnail showed her inside some (I assuming some dude's) car. She doesn't usually update her WhatsApp. :rofl:
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    That's actually very eye opening! Thank you for that. Indifference is the true opposite of affection/love. Haha no! The funny thing is I was not even on a date! I was just hanging out with my other plate and her friends. We were all having fun together! I do not plan on texting her...
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    In sum, I agree with most of my brothers here. This one has dropped and no point repairing it. I admit I was slightly ***** whipped that it led me to question my original stance and question myself. In reflection, we're not exclusive. She was a plate. Things were casual. I wasn't rude to...
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    It was honestly just pure (bad) luck. We've never been there together (with either the girls). Just so happened the girl showed up! Out of 100+ other venues. Of all places too!
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    I think this raises an interesting question (for me anyway, hope someone can answer this) about plating in general. When plates bump, do they inevitably break? What's the best approach to handle these kinds of situations? Obviously no promises have been made to any of the plates when we are...
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    Actually I agree with you on this. I get girls can get jealous but the whole going crazy with other guys in front of me behavior is just questionable. But suppose if I want to bang again, how should I approach it? Hit her up again (what should I say?) or should I wait for her to come around?
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    Yes so what would you do then in this situation
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Thought I would drop in with a brief update of my NC. It's been months (maybe 7?? 8??) since my most recent break up and immediate NC. Personally I've been doing fine. I don't really hurt as much as I used to at the beginning. Though there are periods where I feel mellow especially when I...
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    Did I Handle This Situation Correctly? When Plating Goes Wrong.

    I'll try to keep it short: There's a hot plate I met at a music fest that I've been seeing and regularly ****ing over a few weeks. Things have been wild and fun between us. But there has been no mention of exclusivity nor have I suggested that we are anything more than casual. Recently, I was...
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    A collection of pickup/deep-game notes

    Can't believe I missed this gem. Still very relevant today. Anything else you would add to the list?
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    Is there one girl in your past that you will never forget?

    Yes. Among all the girls I've been with. There are 3 Girls. Girl 1: Absolute sex kitten who was horny and kinky as hell. We had sex constantly. Those sex seshes are some of the most unforgettable ones I've ever had. Regularly we would even meet in her car at a basement car park and ****ed...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    I think there is a lot of truth in what you say based on my own personal experiences in LTR. Reflecting back on some of my break ups over the recent years. In hindsight, some of my exes started to look for exit signs and were slowly detaching themselves but I was oblivious to it at the time. For...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    @Barrister do you think believe or agree with the whole dumpers timeline concept? The idea that the girls only experience the pain, dumped men experience way, months later when the repercussions of their actions hit them. Or no? (Inversely, dumped men experience pain upfront but are better...
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    What's your answer when a chick asks you how much you make?

    I've never been directly asked how much I make by a girl but sometimes I've met girls who are more 'commercially-minded' and they will at times ask about my job (or what exactly I do). When this arises, I usually give an exaggerated and totally ridiculous answer like "I am a sumo wrestler" or "I...
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