Recent content by Hi Jol

I am in agreement with naes420, Crank_It_Up, etc. The reaction by many people on this board is sick. The suspicion and hostility with which many of you respond to a girl reporting she has been raped is one of the reasons girls are reluctant to report this in the first place. We (sosuave.com...

Hi, I live in Rhode Island. Right now I live in Narragansett and go to URI. What part of RI do you live in?

OK, so maybe you don't need to focus on teasing. My feeling was that you should, but maybe I'm wrong. I definately think that you need to break through the wall of formality though. Do you know what I mean? There is a big difference between how people treat each other when they are all formal to...

Re: Re: How do I talk to a girl a few times without seeming overly interested? I think that makes sense, but how do I do that? How to I turn talking from conversation into flirting?

College classes seem to be a good place to pick up girls, but my problem is that I have to talk to these girls more than once in order to get to know them. That means I have to keep initiating conversations with them. This is especially a problem in my philosophy class in which everyone sits...

I'm looking for specific lines or general strategies you guys use to tease girls. I am talking about girls that you don't know or that you kind of know. It is relatively easy to tease girls you know because you have a lot of material to draw from. If you don't know them, it is much harder. I...

bump. can anyone help me here? feel free to answer only one of the questions

I have recently decided that the first thing I need to do to get a girl is tease her. I realized this both by experience and by reading stuff from this site. Teasing establishes your confidence, shows you don't think she is worth more than you, and breaks the barrier of formality to allow for a...

Continuing the story... I am having trouble with the girl on my soccer team. I am always doing AFC things like complimenting her on how well she played, over the top. I can't really figure out what to do next. Also, I was at a train station and had nothing to do for some time, and I...

Thank you for your comment assasin. Lets see, to continue the story... The other day I wanted to get dinner with this other girl I like, so I went up to her room. She was on the phone, and before I started reading this site I probably would have just chickened out. Instead, I got her...

You might want to define friends more closely. Also, you might want to seperate girlfriends from friends. I personally have had no girlfriends, but I have had a number of friends.

So this is the first time I have started trying out DJ strategies on girls, so I am going to write down what I'm doing. Its not that exciting compared to other peoples probably, but I feel like writing it.:D So there is this girl on my intramural soccer team who I have said hi to at lunch...

I was reading TonytheTiger's thread (1-1000) and he says he was talking to someone who was shy and told him it might be good to approach women and say you are shy and blush. Is this true? It seems like it is contrary to being confident. Can you use shyness to your advantage, or is it something...

Do you get enough sleep? My problem is that I'm tired all the time, so I can't concentrate, I can't really talk go girls that well, etc. I've been to a sleep doctor but that hasn't helped. I'm going back later though. I wish I could go out and try these DJ tips but I can't until I stop being tired.

In my opinion the most important thing about this site is that it says confidence works, and any guy can eventually score with confidence. This is so important because it gives confidence by its statement alone. If I want a confidence booster, I just read some stuff on this site. Even most of...