Recent content by Go West

Oh man - I've burned several relationships because I just wasn't considerate enough of "her" feelings. Especially after I was working 10 hour days, going to classes and having a girlfriend. I feel ya brother. Closely examine this relationship because she sounds like she may have some emotional...

This is a great subject. I think it helps men understand what we want from women and in identifying with ourselves. I've been contemplating (see below) lately that I might have to sacrifice in the looks department in order to find a woman who meets the intellectual stimulation aspect. The...

The dreaded friend zone. I've been there many times and it's never fun and very dangerous to your ego once you have feelings for her. Were you being the nice guy when talking with her? Listening to her vent etc...? Pass on that cr*p. Well, you ended up there alright. I agree with the above...

Points well taken, understood and appreciated. It's better to face reality move on.

Week after update Well fellas, it worked. The rule of no contact is the only way to go. I don;t think her IL is at a level where it once was but it is certainly heading in that direction. I didn't call, email or send any type of communication for 6 days and her IL went from probably 35% to...

Oh yeah - the mentality of a 21 year old is nuts. I went down that path of thinking to myself - there's no way this will work with the age diference. I knew she should go out and have her fun, cause if she didn't we'd be done. Yes, I started to like her more than just a FB. Big problem -...

I had to do what I didn't want to. Ended it. It's hard to give up 21 y.o. punani, especially when its good, but my ultimate goal is not banging as many babes as I can but to find one that may end up as a LTR. I'm so glad I posted here, I'll continue to do so. You guys helped with perspetive -...

re Yeah you're definately right. I need to go back to the way I was in the beginning. Sometimes it's hard to remind yourself to be the way and keep the gut-check alive. Especially when emotions are involved. I feel way better going back to the C&F/Confident alpha male. I think my posting...

I've been reading the posts, forums and newsletters for over a year and have found a lot of useful techniques. C&F and Confident Persistence has gotten me in panties and hot water plenty of times in the past year. I've been divorced for 2 years and have had gf's and casual's more in the past 2...