Recent content by flowtheory

Not so actually. She’s selling her car to make his new purchase the FAMILY car. So it’s no longer his personal ride or space, it’s hers and the kids. She’s taking away his autonomy. She’s playing chess and she doesn’t like him doing what he wants on his terms. He will be falling back in to her...

So is everyone. Don’t make it all about women and finger pointing. You’re being delusional in this situation just as “women” are everywhere else.. Conflict happens because of unmet expectations on both sides.

They become unbearable when you’re not being you 100% authentically. You’re putting up with you than you should, you’re being patient when you shouldn’t be, you’re giving in to her when she isn’t giving to you, you’re not respecting yourself fully. If the pattern is on repeat and it leaves you...

yea definetly if a woman goes anywhere without you, rest assured she is going to be on someone else’s d!ck. Best to keep her chained up in the basement!

This whole thread is just you being wrapped up in to her bs drama and losing yourself. It’s all about her. Get out of it. None of it will change. And you get so excited when she texts you like your a crackhead getting another hit of the good stuff. Stop analyzing her and just see how your...

It sounds like you do some shady things behind her back and justify it by saying “who doesn’t do this these days?”, but really you just have low standards for yourself. To the point: She’s openly sending other guys fresh photos, taken just for them. That’s cheating in my mind. You say she has...

Because everyone in her life tells her she will find a good guy one day. Or they took her side when she was in the wrong and told her she can do better. Or had guy friends (Orbiters) during relationships who said “you deserve better” and she believes all that and it becomes her narrative which...

I can agree with the brunt of what you said. Yes, don’t I will say that women become attracted way more when things are uncertain (in a healthy way, sure. But just uncertainty/spontaneity in general) Love and attraction in relationships are two different things. What creates attraction is...

Doooont text her. Your needy and weaker self is responding here. You don’t want want a woman who isn’t showing HIGH interest. Do you think if she was HIGHLY interested she would squander the opportunity to go out and have fun again? And even if she was interested and waiting for you to message...

“You can do anything to a woman, you just can’t bore them” - The Counsellor (Movie) This woman is just damaged and needs drama because she probably has poor self-esteem. Sucks. Because if she has kids she would probably be the tyrant mother, I imagine. And for the guy? He just needs to take...

Good. I wouldn’t have messaged her again either. If she was truly interested she would have made herself available, which you already know. Sucks that it played out this way after you two had a good time with good sex, but it happens sometimes, oddly enough. To make it easier, just look at her...

Super feminine text. You’re not leading her. Next time suggest a date, day and time then let her respond. And like others said, drop the exclamation marks. Try to use only one per message, but not always. It sounds like she never got back to you. I wouldn’t worry about it. For all you know she...

The dynamic in your relationship is bad for your mental and overall health. It sounds like you need a therapists help. This along with your other threads showcase your deep unhappiness with this woman, in this dynamic.

Having self-respect is knowing your boundaries and self-value. One doesn’t have to be an asshoole. But don’t look at it that she has the power, like it’s a beach ball where only one can hold at a time - to give a visual. She does things, and you accept that, while sacrificing your self-respect...

It seems as though you’re just taking what she gives you and trying to be unaffected whilst being effected. When in reality that’s weak. Being unaffected comes when you possess value and have the ability to cut things which don’t align with you. Whatever that may be. And that’s power. Right now...