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  1. flowtheory

    I bought a car and she's pissed

    Not so actually. She’s selling her car to make his new purchase the FAMILY car. So it’s no longer his personal ride or space, it’s hers and the kids. She’s taking away his autonomy. She’s playing chess and she doesn’t like him doing what he wants on his terms. He will be falling back in to her...
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    Why women become unbearable after a while ?

    So is everyone. Don’t make it all about women and finger pointing. You’re being delusional in this situation just as “women” are everywhere else.. Conflict happens because of unmet expectations on both sides.
  3. flowtheory

    Why women become unbearable after a while ?

    They become unbearable when you’re not being you 100% authentically. You’re putting up with you than you should, you’re being patient when you shouldn’t be, you’re giving in to her when she isn’t giving to you, you’re not respecting yourself fully. If the pattern is on repeat and it leaves you...
  4. flowtheory

    The real reason women love to travel (among the many things)

    yea definetly if a woman goes anywhere without you, rest assured she is going to be on someone else’s d!ck. Best to keep her chained up in the basement!
  5. flowtheory

    Was this a **** Test?

    This whole thread is just you being wrapped up in to her bs drama and losing yourself. It’s all about her. Get out of it. None of it will change. And you get so excited when she texts you like your a crackhead getting another hit of the good stuff. Stop analyzing her and just see how your...
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    What to do about a gf that needs constant attention and validation

    It sounds like you do some shady things behind her back and justify it by saying “who doesn’t do this these days?”, but really you just have low standards for yourself. To the point: She’s openly sending other guys fresh photos, taken just for them. That’s cheating in my mind. You say she has...
  7. flowtheory

    C0ck carousel harridan laments: I’m Panicking Because I’m Getting Older And There’s No One Left To Date

    Because everyone in her life tells her she will find a good guy one day. Or they took her side when she was in the wrong and told her she can do better. Or had guy friends (Orbiters) during relationships who said “you deserve better” and she believes all that and it becomes her narrative which...
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    I’m finally dating someone who’s not an as'shole. And I’m bored

    I can agree with the brunt of what you said. Yes, don’t I will say that women become attracted way more when things are uncertain (in a healthy way, sure. But just uncertainty/spontaneity in general) Love and attraction in relationships are two different things. What creates attraction is...
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    Will she text back?Did I text properly?

    Doooont text her. Your needy and weaker self is responding here. You don’t want want a woman who isn’t showing HIGH interest. Do you think if she was HIGHLY interested she would squander the opportunity to go out and have fun again? And even if she was interested and waiting for you to message...
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    I’m finally dating someone who’s not an as'shole. And I’m bored

    “You can do anything to a woman, you just can’t bore them” - The Counsellor (Movie) This woman is just damaged and needs drama because she probably has poor self-esteem. Sucks. Because if she has kids she would probably be the tyrant mother, I imagine. And for the guy? He just needs to take...
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    Will she text back?Did I text properly?

    Good. I wouldn’t have messaged her again either. If she was truly interested she would have made herself available, which you already know. Sucks that it played out this way after you two had a good time with good sex, but it happens sometimes, oddly enough. To make it easier, just look at her...
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    Will she text back?Did I text properly?

    Super feminine text. You’re not leading her. Next time suggest a date, day and time then let her respond. And like others said, drop the exclamation marks. Try to use only one per message, but not always. It sounds like she never got back to you. I wouldn’t worry about it. For all you know she...
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    I bought a car and she's pissed

    The dynamic in your relationship is bad for your mental and overall health. It sounds like you need a therapists help. This along with your other threads showcase your deep unhappiness with this woman, in this dynamic.
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    Her beta male orbiters

    Having self-respect is knowing your boundaries and self-value. One doesn’t have to be an asshoole. But don’t look at it that she has the power, like it’s a beach ball where only one can hold at a time - to give a visual. She does things, and you accept that, while sacrificing your self-respect...
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    Her beta male orbiters

    It seems as though you’re just taking what she gives you and trying to be unaffected whilst being effected. When in reality that’s weak. Being unaffected comes when you possess value and have the ability to cut things which don’t align with you. Whatever that may be. And that’s power. Right now...
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    Her beta male orbiters

    Wow what a saint she is to be assisting guys in their mental health! How does she know these guys? So you’re not jealous but you want preventive measures so she doesn’t swing away from you to somewhere else? Between this and your other thread it sounds like you’re consumed with what’s going...
  17. flowtheory

    She was chasing me, then stopped...

    She probably wanted something serious from the start, but most women play it cool and say they want casual with clandestine motives to lock a guy down, slowly. Them acting up and causing micro dramas are all ways to see your investment in her, to lift your veil and also to test you in the...
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    She was chasing me, then stopped...

    She’s trying to get you to chase her, rather than her chase you. It’s a power move when women do this. But it’s also them being attracted. She’s trying to gain control and certainty, rather than anxious and uncertain Just keep being how you were. She’s testing you to see if what you put forth...
  19. flowtheory

    No-Fap in relationships

    I doubt men who aren’t getting sex are doing no fap. I think they will try it as some golden solution for a bit, then see it doesn’t change things much. People who do no fap, are still addicted to their release. Now they’re just counting how many days they haven’t released. They will ‘relapse’...
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    What women want in you

    I don’t know if women like men who are aggressive. They like a man with tact to get what he wants. Most women are repelled by violent or aggressive behaviour. I think aggression is only good in scenarios where violence could take place and is deemed necessary
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