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This sounds like my story. except I was more AFC than that. I made the mistake of stopping reading the forums and reading the "Fall in love, Stay in love" book by Harley. The book is useful in explaining how affairs happen. But it made me more AFC.

This thread could have been written for me. I've got a lot of AFC to drop.

Evil people take advantage of good people. Crime seems to give an advantage. That upper hand, however, comes at a cost. Evil people will knock off good people and other evil people. While good people will not knock off each other, they will knock off evil people. So good people must be...

" I just want to add, that if evil is absence of AWARENESS, and the lower animals are not, as you say, as "aware" as us, then why aren't nature itself, and all those "unaware animals" evil, while all the men over the ages which may be considered (at least by many) to be "evil" were able to read...

Thanks LTR is my fav topic. (sigh) I need to stop picking girls with divorced parents. I think that was my pattern.

aliasguy. Preservation and propagation of self are at the core of everything, from ego to evolution. Consider that natural state the baseline. The default is maximum self interest at any cost. Good is perceived as choosing actions for the greater benefit of more than genes & egos, at some...

This may sound simple but... Figure out which other areas of your life are sources of low confidence, and work to improve them. Aim to make yourself outstanding in the areas of your strength. Do nothing much else, and force yourself to get tons of sleep, day after day. Its been my approach.

She still wants you to love her and miss her. It upsets her self esteem that you do not show that. She will pull what ever emotional strings she can, to see if she can still get control over you. These are immature reactions. When a baby is faced with an outsider, it has two survival...

tell her she is sexy. risk stepping it up.

One thing that was symptomatic of the end of my pain & distress over my x ... was that I developed a self love that eclipsed my pride. My pride was wounded. I've worked hard on improving some areas, and the pride is rebuilt to a moderate degree. But I became so consumed with my story, my...

wtf? LOL

The unconscious is reactive. The conscious is generally empathetic, by association with awareness. Through empathy and awareness, we can choose good actions. An enlightened person sees some value and responsibility in remaining aware and present. It is good to do because, generally good...

Twice I've gotten into a situation where I was starving for a month. For the longest time, my main aim was to have enough money to be able to eat whatever I want. I pretty much got that now. You know its bad when you start thinking about cooking your cat! LOL Thank you for Reminding me of...

I think you are asking an "either/or" question. Should you "go with light or defense". It reminds me of a quote from Jurassic Park , "Life will find a way". I think goodness will find a way. I think there is a way to burn bright in the darkness with a full set of adequate defenses. I do...

Go Ron Paul, by the way. Defense comes first. Then look to shedding light. I do think you can come under attack when trying to do spiritual good. Be wise and look after yourself. Take a breather. Drop the "agro" so to speak, until negativity sets its focus elsewhere, off you.