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on a side note, kind of on the same concept.. if im at a bar (relatively small max 70 people) and i successfully pick up a girl get her digits etc.. isn't it unwise to go do the same thing to another set nearby same bar? most of the girls go outside to smoke or accompany their friends or even...

you have to remeber i went for a drink on the 1st date.. then hot choc for the second.. she wouldn't let me kiss close on 2nd date.. she just yaps on and on.. making me feel like an orbiter or friendzoned.. i try escalating she doesn't let me and carries on yapping listening to her BS. this...

yeah i wont send anything then. i was just going to decline it as advised but there's no point. likewise there's no point suggesting drinks at her place.. she's not interested.. she's trying to turn me into an orbiter and im not taking the bait.. nor letting her knw i'm still interested. i...

i should mention i've already met her twice before and she wouldn't let me kiss close on the 2nd date.. she was treating me like an orbiter.. when i said to her at the end 'so when you goign to dress up for me then?' she moves away and jokingly says' no no' with a big smile on her face basically...

when i decline her offer if i say 'no im going to be busy this weekend' won't that sound bvtthurt? i need something to send which declines her invitation but doesn't show annoyance or anger or butthurt.. indifferent.

this is exactly what i was thinking! i dont want to get into a relationship with her she's gona be a pain in the a$$ also wayyyyy too attached to her dog.. i can imagine trying to escalate and her dog runs over and she completely shifts the attention from the dog to me. my thinking is i...

no i wont hit her up if i decline her invitation. im not chasing anymore, i've done enough. i just dont know what i need to say to convey im not as interested anymore or that her coffee idea is boring. maybe 'no i cant, im gona be busy this weekend, besides that doesn't sound like fun or...

i feel i am at a stalemate with her.. she knows what i want and is tryna turn me into an orbiter/friendzone.. i refuse to be that so i will not play her game. the only solution if she wants my attention is to invite me over to her place.. that's it. im not sure if not replying will have my...

2 Saturdays ago i texted the lawyer lady i mentioned in my other threads (i dont have any options right now and i had a moment of weakness sending it) me: the weather is getting warmer you can wear them for me soon.. we should cook dinner together sometime in the next few days. what you up to...

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what if she's walking past with either a)a guy or b)a hot female friend(s)? if she initiates contact when she's with a guy, i'd just keep walking by cos i'd assume she's tryna make the guy jealous (i've had this happen to me twice before in the past) should you just keep walking? or if i...

i was thinking if i dont reply is that really going to make her wonder 'hmm.. i dont have him anymore.' im trying to be not needy (which i am but not tryna show it) i hopefully will have some new options by tomorrow which will help me settle down a bit but if she has a lot of other guys into...

should i respond now is the question? im caught between 2 minds. i dont know which is going to work in my favor. if i respond i could just be given the cold shoulder again, if i do respond i guess i could try to create some attraction again but given the current scenario i feel like she prob...

noted i'll do this, but the issue i have is at the local coffee places where i chill out chances are they'll come by some point over eater and cos i'll be sitting it'll be hard to avoid some sort of confrontation.. should i just pretend to be busy on my laptop and not look up? and if they say...

after a moment a weakness and fury after the other one i met last night was being disrespectful i text this one: are you going away for easter? this morning she texts: her: yes im going to the country to see family friends. her: you? i haven't replied, nor will i. given the scenario i'm...