Recent content by dontmindme

all the other content aside, i found this to be the most stupid statement ever Your opinion to my post is invalid because you don't know me. But my opinion about you is valid because I've read your posts. This reeks of holier-than-thou idiocy and hypocrisy.

I think it's fine as long as you don't ask: "You're still going right?" To give her the opportunity to cancel without sounding AFC-ish, just call to let her know when you'll be leaving. If she wants to flake, that's her opening. If she's still good, she'll appreciate knowing how many extra...

Very true.

Well said sir. I would also like to add that we need to keep this site in perspective. The material in the bible works best if you have your shyt together in your life, be it academically, mentally, career-wise, family-wise, etc. If you hate yourself, and thus insecure about who you are...

What he said.

No matter what action you pick, you can't let it bother you to the point that you're wasting brain power on figuring out what to do. The proper way to 'handle' this is to mold yourself into the type of person that can shrug at the sutation, maybe even smile, and just move on to the better...

she sounds super nervous. i say give, get that second date or third date, see if she settles down a little, and if you're still not getting the vibes, move on

How about this as an ultimatum: Sorry to be calling you for the 3rd time, but I have a terminal illness, cancer, and my doctor says I have only a month to live. All my life I've never dated women, but when I saw you, I knew I wanted to have just one date with you before I die. I never asked...

Nah, just leave it at that. Too many girls do that, and it's just pointless to be calling them on it all the time.

Nice to hear some good stories of people actively going out there and trying to change their lives. :)

Yeah, I tend to agree. I think a success is really truly a success only after being able to make a 2nd date. But, in terms of improvement, I think it's good if you go from getting 0 numbers to 15 numbers. :) At least you have some sort of options to work with.

Or you can use something from that Friends episode where that guy seduces Monica: Her: So you have a girlfriend? You: No, ever since my last girlfriend, I've been unable to...umm...perform. Sure, I've gone out with women, but no one's been able to do it for me since my ex-gf.

How about, "Damn girl. I told you I wanted to give you the full $150, but I deserve a discount from a hooker with herpes!"

But the nice thing is, these stereotypes aren't held as strongly by people who are non-Asian recent entrants into this country because they haven't been exposed to American media. Although America is the home of the free, I think the minds of non-Americans are more 'free' in this regards.

That's a good move, but I'd only try it after you have talked/joked with the waitress the whole night and have established good rapport, and you play it as just another light-hearted joke.