Recent content by dmvdav

I've had a lifelong problem with PE and I'm wondering if anyone has overcome a similar problem and seen better results. I've never apologized about cvming quickly but I've been wondering if it might be beneficial to open up about it to a girl I've been getting serious with. I'm not talking about...

Thanks for the responses. Ive already been playing dumb hoping to work out some type of deal. At first I thought they were just testing me to make sure I wasn't the type of person to snitch to the boss or something, but there's something really angry in the way they treat me. I believe they want...

I know this is long but I need some advice and I know some of you have experience in conquering workplace dynamics. The summary is that I've got a few coworkers trying to play me by pretending to befriend me because they think I'm stupid and easy to push around. The problem is it's starting to...

Yep I agree with this. She's clingy right now because she wants to keep you close while she plans her escape route. It will be either A or B unless you're like 30 then it might be C. She's going to be extra nice and loving to you and may even act like it's all good, but that's her way of...

Is it ever worth it to report a female coworker to a manager? It seems so whiny and trivial to think about a man complaining to his manager about a female coworker, and it also seems pointless knowing there won’t be any action taken against her. Actually, it will end up being counter productive...

Just flake completely? I was thinking about doing that, but it just seems a little extreme when I'm not entirely sure i've fully lost frame with this girl. Like you said, she was interested enough to confirm, and it's not hard for me to say I got the directions messed up. I may do it just for...

I met a girl at a party, and by the end of the night she sucked my ****. She wanted sex but I told her no (i don't know why). I intended to turn the one night stand into a multiple night stand, so I texted her a few days later saying we should get together for drinks. She agreed, I set a day...

I feel like it is destroying me too. It turns simple tasks into such complicated problems due to the emotional drama, but I think that's just how it is in the food and beverage workplace. I have a very hard time controlling my anger when this woman speaks to me the way she does, and I don't know...

I know there are a lot of people on here with good jobs, and in high positions, but i'm not one of those people. I work at a restaurant, with almost all female co-workers, and female managers. I've only had the job for three weeks, and still have another month before my "probation period" is...

A girl can make herself believe whatever she wants. If she says she's in town, that means she wants to see you. You made it clear how you feel before, and the crazy part is that only made her more attracted to you. If she asks you if feel different now, you tell her you feel the same. But...

What would happen if I did that? Realistically, and worst case scenario. Right now I feel like such an idiot, because I'll make a credit card payment, just so I can use the card to pay other payments. It's never getting paid off. I know it's not relevant, but the credit card debt is because I...

I am 24 years old, and decided tonight was my last night at my job. I keep getting less hours because my managers don't fire people, just give them one or two hours a week and increase workload so they eventually quit. I am broke, and have bills to pay, but at least I live with my parents so I...

Can you give some examples on this? I always say "hang out" or "getting together" with the girls I date. Sometimes I'll just say "you are mine thursday night" which is better, but I would like some ideas about other things to say. Makes sense. I have to just chillll, which I already knew...

Yea, I understand that. I realize how common this situation is. It happened to me once before with another girl, I texted her "no worries" and then we hooked up weekly for five months after. I asked because I respect the game enough to want to play it right. I understand why it's a good...

And I know what that implies. She says she can't hang out until "probably next week" because her friend is coming to visit her. Her and I were just getting things started, but everything was going really good. I feel like she's now saying she isn't interested, but at the same time she really...