Recent content by dman

We're at 6 months right now since we met, but only 2 months since she has been single. I don't think I could drag this out a year. 6 months perhaps, starting 2 months ago.

Shenzhen. Raised not to far from there, but works there now. I've heard about some of the monsters coming out of Shanghai.

Don't get me wrong mate, I look at plenty of women. I just now *try* not to do it in front of her. The hassle that comes after is just waste of time, and to be honest, it's disrespectful anyway. She never does it in front of me, so I shouldn't do it in front of her. Her doing whatever she wants...

LIKE button found and pressed. Thank you, all great posts. I'm not seeing the parents yet! Just telling the other gent that if that happens, then it's really serious. The topic of me meeting mom and dad has never come up. She's just starting to plant a few seeds with them in case we travel...

She is actually at home visiting her parents as I type. We talked about her planting the seed that she met a nice American guy at the gym, or something along those lines, but don't talk to much about it, just that she has a new friend. She wants to do some extended traveling with me and was...

Amazing post, thank you. This is my first mainland girl, so I'm really swinging in the dark. This helps a lot, thanks again! You are right about the food, she is a fanatic. Everywhere we go, it's always about eating. Food, food, food! I don't know where these tiny girls put it all.

We are both in Asia, and by luck I travel to China (her city!) almost every month. When I don't she, comes to see me anytime she has a holiday from work longer than 2 days. This has been going on for 6 months now, with the last 2 months, her living alone. So, she puts in effort, just keeps...

So you understand. Good advice by the way. And YES, I totally believe you about the finger!!! They are insanely jealous. Never seen anything like it. She caught me looking at a woman once who I only looked at because she fell down. Sh*t storm! She doesn't ask for money. Just the opposite...

Yea, I know. I'm 38 years old, been there, done that, all over the world. But this is the first one I've ever been ready to go all in for. She does it for me in every way. Wish that were not the case, but it is.

Solid advice. I'm about to see her next week for 5 days and we have our New Years plans already set and paid for. Wonder if going ghost between this visit and New Years is believable, as she knows we already have plans. Thoughts?

That's the rub, she is from mainland China, they don't generally advance the relationship there. The man has to make the move and let her know they are interested. In Asia, the man almost always has to lead every aspect of what is happening. The Chinese (mainland Chinese), often take a more...

I already told her if she starts dating other guys that I'm out. She isn't looking for anyone else, so she says. She just doesn't want to commit at this time, and doesn't want me to be with another, I'm guessing out of fear of losing me. She works 12 hours a day, so she really doesn't much have...

First time poster here. Here are the cliff notes of my situation. Looking for advice on how to play this. I met her while she was on vacation. She is from mainland China, was in an unhappy relationship for 3 years. Was supposed to marry and have kids (society pressure), but that plus the fact...