Recent content by DJArlington

hey guys when a girl asks you 'would you mind if your wife makes more money than you?' - what is your response to this question? Personally, I'm not really comfortable with it because then she can have more control over the marriage. Also - I'm in a situation where I'm in all likelihood going...

So are you justifying women being hors when they engage in branch swinging behavior? let me ask it another way, is a woman who hangs on to her cushion before she commits to the rock (assume the rock will eventually commit to her) okay behavior?

I have one plate but nothing that I'm really interested in. As usual, you guys are right, I have to go after the women I truly want and desire. I gotta be a man and I can't make apologies for it.

Guys : As my last relationship was ending I met a real nice girl through one of my female friends. The problem is instead of pursuing her I became friends with her - this is because things were still back and forth between my ex and I and I thought that may be I would get back with my ex...

Guys, A lot of you on this site know about my ex. I never realized she was such a BPD. I actually broke up with her 8 months into my relationship, we were long distance, and on the day we broke up she actually drove to my city (4 hours away) to try and save things. I told her that we...

Bro we have all been there. You have got to do things / mental exercises that will get your confidence back up.

i know it sounds pathetic but if there is no dance floor and alchohol involved it's hard for me to make a move on a girl. i'm sure you guys have had the same feeling before. i know kino is essential to the game. is kino / making out required on date 1 / date 2 ?? thanks..

Remember if you know that you should get out of situation with a woman, your decision must be firm. If your mind wavered like mine did, it will take a toll on your mental health. And women don't care about that, a woman such as the one in this thread will suck the life out of you if you let...

To all the young people on this site please use me as an example. No contact means no contact, no matter what. Block numbers, emails, whatever you gotta do. There are some demented women out there. Look at the one I've been involved with. She must have called me a bizillion times that day...

I am done with her. I will send an email to her today cutting things off and I will call the phone company. I am so blind sometimes with women. They are my weakness. I need to work on this.

Okay hold up for a second now. I am not that stupid to screw my life up. That's what I keep trying to tell everyone. So she moved to my city a few years ago and stayed here for 6 months. Because her career options were quite low and at that time I wasn't quite sure about her due to family...

As some of you know on this site I had an LTR for a few years that was long distance. I did the majority of the breaking up due to problems with my family and my lack of trust in her (now with that being said looking back, I'm pretty sure that most of my trust issues didn't have merit)...

I was 233 and now I'm down to 210lbs. And I'm working hard to lose more weight. So - either my confidence has gone up because I have lost weight or something crazy is going on. But through the Internet, friends, etc. I have been going out with women left and right. These are HB5/HB6 level...

my ex did a sex tape that I found on her computer and refused to delete it. i still stayed with her after that, my own AFC stupidity. we had been dating a while when I found it. what you are dealing with my friend is simple - every girl has a past, just get over it. if you see some red...

Thanks guys. I'm going to keep patience and will send max one or two emails, will get them on the phone, and will try to meet up with them ASAP. I replied to one of the girls right away and she responded so I'm okay, but with the other one who is a total hottie I responded right away and...