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    Female Mating Strategy is not complicated guys, it is simply hidden from us and obfuscated to increase it's effectiveness

    Again. Projections from the dogmatic do not effect my reality. Despite your insults, which amuse me, lol. I am impervious to your salvo. Of course I’m unworthy in your eyes. Always disdain what you cannot have. Law #36....Hilarious. Truly. Let me put it to you this way...if I wanted...
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    Female Mating Strategy is not complicated guys, it is simply hidden from us and obfuscated to increase it's effectiveness

    Not at all. Projecting a belief system onto me doesn’t make it objectively so. Nice try though, lol.
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    Female Mating Strategy is not complicated guys, it is simply hidden from us and obfuscated to increase it's effectiveness

    There isn’t some mating strategy to be revealed in all cases. Do a percentage of women operate that way? Certainly. But many do not and it’s the group that do not who actually make the best partners.... As for me? Ha! I’ve no mating strategy at all. I’m done with that phase of life, lol...
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    Female Mating Strategy is not complicated guys, it is simply hidden from us and obfuscated to increase it's effectiveness

    Advice from the old lady: Agree with @stormrider about theory. It’s silly to me to hear all these theories. I don’t operate from an opportunistic place, from a usefulness place etc. I like men who I find desirable. Desirability for me is an alchemy of appearance (face), height (taller)...
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    Being nice has gotten me so much further with women

    Give me an arrogant douch ebag over a spineless or disingenuous “nice guy” all day. I can manage the ass hole. There is substance there to push against; edge; bravado. Push over fraidy cat dudes just trying to get by? Can’t do it. If I push they tip over. No challenge, no edge, no polarity...
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    How to deal with women like this?

    Advice from the old lady: This is a catty thing women who actually are either insecure or high brow snobby do. Just ignore it. It’s not worth the emotional bandwidth. If you want to snub this kind of behavior you do so indirectly. For example demonstrate characteristics or admittance to...
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    Subtle ways of showing interest

    Advice from the old lady: Fortune favors the bold. Remember that. Don’t be subtle. Be bold. Be direct. You can be bold & direct and still be cool at the same time. This accomplishes a number of things: 1. You’ll get a response and know where you stand without the need to Monday morning...
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    Should a man ever seek emotional security in a woman?

    Advice from the old lady: You don’t want to be an emotional mess all the time for any and all reasons.... But your woman, if she is a ride or die type...she should be a safe place for her man to express emotion and receive support... My ex BF’s father was terminally ill. He had to be strong...
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    Chicks expect fancy dates and how do I stop that?

    Be more casual. Your look should reflect the vibe you want to project. To project a cool vibe dress less formally and take a more relaxed approach to yourself. Currently you are a little incongruent coming across to women. You have worked hard to get where you are...and you like good...
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    Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Redpilled

    Sigh. Well. The good news is nothing Final Line says about me personally has any affect nor effect on my actual life, his fantasy assertions about me aside... Which have no bearing whatsoever on my actual reality. Entertaining no doubt. But more akin to Fantasia than reality. I stand...
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    Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Redpilled

    Ah. Let’s pull your projections, bitterness and assumptions apart shall we? I make no argument about the “corrupt women” because such women (and men) exist. But not all are corrupt. You assert that “You like it. Thus your post”. I don’t care one way or another. My post originated from the...
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    Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Redpilled

    A good discussion. True I like the players. Seeing one now in fact. All people screen. I can always walk or not walk. The interesting thing about the man I am seeing is his utter transparency. He does not hide who he is nor what he does. If it makes me uncomfortable, so be it. He likes...
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    Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Redpilled

    You make an important point of in your statement above. It DOES go against INDIVIDUAL survival instinct...which is one of the things I said in my earlier post. The interdependence of the relationship takes precedent. It is a choice and requires absolute trust. People rise to interdependence...
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    Absorbing the Loss of a "Good Woman" is how you get Redpilled

    You have the benefit of seeing a partnership like the one Kotaix and I describe in your parents’ marriage...just as Kotaix sees in his parents. I have peers and friends who have partnerships like this. They are amazing to see...so that means these things are possible...and thereby removes the...
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